i like my best friend but right now he is in some other place finishing his 12th. he has a girl friend out there, but she is damn stupid and i am sure they will not be continuing once he is back. i know him since a very long time and i am very compatible with him. he is going to be back in 6 months. what should i do? i sometimes feel very bad when he talks about his gf to me but i as well know that he can leave her for me. should i help him in his relationship? or should i be selfish enough to see what i like and to act accordingly?
2006-10-20 22:16:54 · 16 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think before you do . you should help him in his work
2006-10-20 22:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Schumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him work on his own relationship. If he likes her enough to talk about her then something is going right for him. If you're a true friend you will let him make his own decisions. Don't be a homewrecker, it will only make you feel worse in the end. Just let him do his thing with his girlfriend and if it's meant to be with you and him when he gets back, then you'll get together, but don't force it or rush it, the results you will not like.
2006-10-21 05:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is really your best friend leave it alone. you will mess up all those years of friendship over a perhaps a few months of pleasure. trust me it isn't worth it. your passion or what ever will probably make him leave his girl, and you can make him yours but when its over it will take more than a boy friend.
besides he has known you how long and who is his girlfriend? think about it. you say, "she is so damn stupid...." but she is still his girlfriend.
if he isn't telling you this you really shouldn't assume it. if he is then that is even worse, cause she is still his girlfriend. what is gonna happen if you take her place, who will he cry to when he is fed up with you?
good luck
2006-10-21 05:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by diablito69us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here you are waiting around for a guy while he has got another girl.Dont you respect yourself?If you do you will pick yourself up and date someone who is single.Your talking about stealing someone elses man and that just makes you a loser.life is to short if he wanted you he would already of been with you.
2006-10-21 05:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only women label men as friends. Most men would never consider any woman "just a friend."
Tell him, you don't want to live the rest of your life wondering what might have been.
2006-10-21 05:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you call yourself his best friend, learn to act like one. Your petty remarks about his "stupid" girlfriend only show that at the moment, you have no idea what friendship even means.
2006-10-21 05:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it...If you really are best friends then it will either last forever or if you do break up you wont be bothered with it. If he isnt your best friend then you should go for it and then it wont matter so much. Think about it, if you dont go for it you will probably start hating him cos you are annoyed at yourdelf!
2006-10-21 05:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by xxmexx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with him an see what happens with him. if hes got a gf then steer well clear thats wrong....
2006-10-21 05:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by hjo~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a question to justify your selfishness
or
to
help your best friend?
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2006-10-21 05:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should help him and find more truth about it.for all you know it could become different.
2006-10-21 05:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by cooljess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋