Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

Ok so i did some detective work and found two downloads (or so they appear) and a new famale texting him.. so after asking him if he had anything he wanted to tell me that may upset me.. he continued to say "no" but being a woman and being all paranoid from havin a smoke.. i did summit stupid i checked his phone and found yet more texts fromt his girl... after it eating away at me i asked to meet him for a *** (he works with me) and tell him whats going on and what ive seen and done!! It ends up that it is all out of inocence that he is texting this woman (apparently a good friend of his mums) now i feel like ive just lost my relatioship for asking him!!! he's gone back to his office.. im sat here fighting back the tears and thinking ive just lost the one personi truly ever loved not knowing if this relationship is over or not... We normally have lunch together at 1pm i supose that i will find out then... my question is what do i do now???? The last thing i want is to lose him...

2006-10-17 23:59:48 · 23 answers · asked by Cat ( " , ) 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 23:57:39 · 25 answers · asked by ToxoTes 2 in Singles & Dating

You're know this person for 5yrs get married. Of course you have bonded with family and friends. Everyone has accepted you into their lives. The relationship with your other half is unbreakable so you think. You and your spouse splits because he is cheating. My question is who should the family and friends side with? I'm not saying to disown the cheating party but should there be some kind of loyality to the other person this wasn't cheating? Not only did I lose a husband but I lost friends and a family that I'd grown to love.

2006-10-17 23:56:40 · 16 answers · asked by Tweetyboo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 23:56:22 · 13 answers · asked by Joyce S. 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is turning 12 in November. He's told me a few things that he'd like but I'm not sure what to get because I don't want to disappoint him with my selection. Is it tacky to get a 12 yr old a gift card from one or two stores so he can pick something out himself? I do this for Christmas presents for adult friends but I'm not sure if that's okay for a child?

2006-10-17 23:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am a single outgoing male, my problem is that i have weird fantasies and im scared i will carry them out as they are getting more and more intense. you see i keep fantasising that i want to get a gal naked, tie her on a bed of nails with barbed wire then whip her with stinging nettles ,then finaly pouring hot pepper sauce over her and licking it off slowly. pls help before my other fantasy involving me useing an electric egg whisk on a woman takes over me.

2006-10-17 23:52:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f of 3 weeks , wants his mate to watch us you know, well this i dont mind too much but i am scared he is gonna join in, they just laugh when i ask

2006-10-17 23:50:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Men:


1. All men are extremely busy.

2. Although they are so busy, they still have time for women.

3. Although they have time for women, they don't really care for them.

4. Although they don't really care for them, they always have one around.

5. Although they always have one around them, they always try their luck with others.

6. Although they try their luck with others, they get really pissed off if the wom an leaves them.

7. Although the women leaves them they still don't learn from their mistakes and still try their luck with others.


Women:



1. The most important thing for a woman is financial security.

2. Although this is so important, they still go out and buy expensive clothes.

3. Although they always buy expensive clothes, they never have something to wear.

4. Although they never have something to wear, they always dress beautifully.

5. Although they always dress beautifully, their clothes are always just "An old rag".

6. Although their clothes are always "just an old rag", they still e xpect you to compliment them.



7. Although they expect you to compliment them, when you do, they don't b elieve you

2006-10-17 23:49:59 · 12 answers · asked by ashok kumar 3 in Friends

I'm a single asian guy who love big girl.

2006-10-17 23:47:56 · 5 answers · asked by asian_man_admires_bbw 5 in Singles & Dating

does a womans size/weight really bother you? for instance if you met a girl who had everything going for her but was say a size20 would that stop you from chatting her up??

2006-10-17 23:47:02 · 31 answers · asked by delaruedebbie 2 in Singles & Dating

will ever get back together? I really liked them and thought they were the best couple. I wish I was going out with Martha

2006-10-17 23:41:42 · 2 answers · asked by alias_47 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 23:41:02 · 18 answers · asked by jetpig_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been engaged for 9 years now, and my partner wants to get married. The thing is I've been seeing someone else off and on for 4 years. Its a guy I work with, so I spend a lot of time with him during the day. I have strong feelings for this guy. He has a girlfriend of 5 years. He says that he wouldn't leave her for me. He says that he loves both of us equally. When I talk to him about marrying my parter he gets upset with me, but I know that he'll never leave his girlfrend for me. Should I forget about him?

2006-10-17 23:40:22 · 48 answers · asked by Poppy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi
I,m 22 years old and very shy and i,m not sure if this guy who is 18 whether or not he likes me? He sits next to me alot and did start conversation with me and he said i was really difficult to talk to and hasn`t really talked to me since.
If he does like me i,m not sure if i should go out with him because of his age and also the fact that i have a 17 year old brother.

2006-10-17 23:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first of all, i'm 22....
I've been with him for a long time, but never got to have a weekend alone with him....

Everyone looks like crap in the morning (at least I do).... are there ways to prevent it???

i know its a silly question, but help!

2006-10-17 23:39:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

day off what better way to spend it ?????

2006-10-17 23:39:26 · 15 answers · asked by keith0866 2 in Family

whenever i see a really beautiful girl, i tend to freeze and panic. i usually just keep my mouth shut and can't even look them straight in the eye. sometimes they get attracted to that, but some think i'm being stuck up. anyone going through this too? or is it just me?

2006-10-17 23:39:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found out my dad been seeing other woman and couples.
also going to swingers clubs.
he has no idea i know this!!!!
i want to tell him i know but if i tell him ill go mad at him and probs hit him.
there a twist he has bad kidney which means he going on some sort of machine soon to help him.
i want to help him but after what he done i cant even look at him in face no more.
god know i love him but i hate him at sametime for what he has done.
do i tell my mum?
she got enough probs without this on her back.
shall i let it drop or what??????
he makes me sick!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-17 23:36:46 · 12 answers · asked by alan h 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that a guy stares at you smiles makes intense eye contact but does nothing absolutly nothing and he keeps it up for months and its so obvious why does he not make a move!!

2006-10-17 23:35:14 · 24 answers · asked by Fuck off 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is working very hard, but the time he's not working he'd rather spend with his friends than me, a week ago he said we should take sex out of our relationship. is there someone else, is he gay, or am i worried bout nothing? is it my body, im a size 10 with a D-cup breasts. he's talking about getting married, but i think he only want a good mother for his daughter of 5. he's 26 and i'm 19. why would he want to take sex out of our relationship? should i be worried?

2006-10-17 23:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 23:31:45 · 23 answers · asked by cutegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 23:29:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are going to have our first romantic getaway together. We have already reserved a penthouse suite on the oceanfront. I need some ideas of plans of things we can do that would make our night perfect!
Thankyou

2006-10-17 23:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by phattygirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know I have asked this before but I scared of the person I am becoming. I really need to fall out of love with my first love because she knows how I feel and is not interested and is seeing someone els. But how can I achieve this when she is on my mind all the time she is in my heart and soul. She has also said she is scared of me but is still concerned for me. How can I change and go back to just being friends with her.

2006-10-17 23:27:08 · 20 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is getting a bit clingy....she rings and texts me all the time and its beginning to get on my nerves, when i don't text her back straight away she sulks and asks what i've been doing, as though i have no life of my own, i feel i have to answer to her, i've even been guilty of not answering the phone in fear of it being her...of course i don't want to upset her but what's the best way around this...

2006-10-17 23:26:48 · 7 answers · asked by Susie2 4 in Friends

i mean he is only 3 months younger but is it still ok?

2006-10-17 23:25:07 · 14 answers · asked by :..: 3 in Friends

is she is physically strong,mentally prepared to take care of her husband

2006-10-17 23:18:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 23:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by Cute Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 23:15:41 · 25 answers · asked by dallasfan 2 in Family

I broke up wit my bf durin d summer, but now we are back in college he keps tellin me he loves me and now i have even heard strangers talking bout it! I know i will never ever get back with him and i have made that very clear, but he still doesnt seem to get the message! how can i convince him to get over me??? i feel so guilty at the moment and hate the way people think im a ***** just because i dont like him! help me!!

2006-10-17 23:14:48 · 20 answers · asked by helpme2000 1 in Singles & Dating