Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

I've always just considered "feelings" as a synonym for emotion, but I recently had the idea that feelings might be literal. So are feelings literally tangible sensations, or is the word just a synonym for emotion? i.e. does heartache refer to actual chest pain?

2006-10-17 01:34:22 · 4 answers · asked by Jaques S 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I'm pregnant told my boyfriend how I feel about me getting and abortion he said sometimes you have to do something you don't have to do. But he just keep saying we are young because we both are 17 I understand that. It just seems like he don't care about me it and he said he's not going to have any sympathy for me I'm like it's your baby too. Just keep saying you better get the abortion. Then when I don't pick up the phone he always think i'm cheating so I was like forget it. Let me know if you want to be with me because I'm all cried out. When we was together he cried telling me that he was going to miss be and he would give up that easy and he's changing he ask me what I think it was all a game I said I don't know then he said f**k me so I hung up. Then I call back and said so f**k me now he said yea and my phone going died and hung up. I just want to know what should I do about him and the baby I mean I don't want to bring a child in this world who father don't want it.

2006-10-17 01:32:33 · 20 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I babysit 2 kids. The oldest one is very abusive to my children. He kicks, hits, and bites. Their mom is a single mother and cannot afford daycare. I am doing this as a favor to her. However, my 2 oldest kids just started school and I want to take some time for me and my other children. Not to mention that I can no longer deal with the abuse he puts forth on my children. How do I tell their mother that I do not want to watch them anymore and how much of a notice should I give?

2006-10-17 01:30:55 · 13 answers · asked by Bonnie 1 in Family

I am turning 40 soon, don't feel like I have accomplished much, how can I spice up my life, remain a good mom, and get my husband interested in me again?

2006-10-17 01:28:23 · 20 answers · asked by wilderhares 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 01:27:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is out of town since a year and may come back next month, he has a girlfriend whom he calls everyday twice or thrice since a year, he is yet to talk to his parents about this and if they agree these two will move or else break up.
question is: I meet his girl friend some 6 months back , we both became very good friends and were emotionally tied up very much to each other and than we were so much attached to each other that it was difficult to give a name to our relationship and finally there came a stage where she burst out into tears and told me that she cant live without me and cant imagine a life without me and i was also in the same stage. She says she had never felt such a thing with my friend and she was even ready to breakup if my friends parents didnt agree for there marriage (without any pain). Are we both wrong in liking each other or falling in love with eachother but i swear we never had any intention of doing this but it happened

2006-10-17 01:26:41 · 13 answers · asked by amitoberoi 1 in Family

Me and my boyfriend been together for a couple of months and we are in a deep love relationship. He have an bestfriend thats an girl.Its not really that she a girl its just everytime me and him on the phone she over his house,it be around 1 or 2 o clock in the morning when we get off the phone and she STILL be there.When she not there and we finally get time to ourselve all he talk about is her and when i say i dont wanna hear that he stop talking completely.

2006-10-17 01:25:03 · 14 answers · asked by Nell 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 01:23:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married, not very well with my husband, but we have a kid. I think I would be happy with somebody else, in the same situation (married, with a child). We both decided to fight for our famillies and to meet in 15 years when our kids will not need us anymore. do you think it is possible a so long term plan?

2006-10-17 01:23:18 · 16 answers · asked by viola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The post he was on was maint job contron in 1982-1984 I have a platim with his name on it. This is all I have. I am trying to track him down as He is my dad and I have never met him.

2006-10-17 01:20:45 · 1 answers · asked by artistrial 1 in Family

Is it normal for me to fantasize about my husband sleeping with another women?

2006-10-17 01:18:43 · 29 answers · asked by fluffer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 01:18:12 · 16 answers · asked by Bob M 1 in Singles & Dating

so what the hell does it mean when you follow a girl all week in unexpected places obviously not in favor of your own schedual,and then you ask her "who the hell she is" even though she's never talked to you like ever.are you pissed at her or something?and then you tell her friends not to tell you who you are.

2006-10-17 01:13:44 · 23 answers · asked by Barbsss 1 in Singles & Dating

I have urgly strech marks all over my thighs and bumthis hasnt been much of a problem coz i hide them in slacks, but recently, they have started developing on my upper arm. i have tried bio oil but its not working. any ideas what i can use to get rid of the? its a nightmare.
Thanx

2006-10-17 01:13:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends best friend is a total loser, he is single and hangs around us the whole time, he also uses a lot of drugs, so he is not very good influence on my boyfriend. He is rude, obnoxious and just very irritating. We never get to do anything alone, he comes over when he pleases and stays forever, and my boyfriend wont see him for what he really is, how do i get my boyfriend to see this and how do i get rid of this friend.Please HELP!!!!!

2006-10-17 01:13:00 · 8 answers · asked by cleopatra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 01:12:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today is my husband's birthday what shall I buy him

2006-10-17 01:10:55 · 20 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i neeed to know

2006-10-17 01:09:27 · 14 answers · asked by stevey.price 2 in Family

when my boyfriend is nice when i get home from work and other times his just nasty and dont want to speak to me?
We live with his mother and they grew up in a bad house.( know what I mean?) We are moving out the end of the month. I just never know if i can smile or what cause his never the same with me?? im tired of this

2006-10-17 01:09:11 · 10 answers · asked by Charlene 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My two closest friends went out with each other for 2 years. They broke up about an year ago and I am still best friends with both of them even though they no longer talk.
One of them (the girl) has had 2 boyfriends since then and is happily in love with her new man. My male friend (her ex) and I have grown closer recently and have admitted that we are falling for each other. I really care about him, but don't know what to do, as I know the whole thing about leaving your ex's friends alone. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-17 01:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by mysterious_gal1984 3 in Friends

2006-10-17 01:07:10 · 32 answers · asked by hay hay 1 in Weddings

The board I mean--you guys have to stop this madness!

2006-10-17 01:06:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 01:06:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this girl I like and we are friends. I really like her but don't have the guts to ask her for the fear of her saying no and it being a little too awkward. We have gone out as friends with each other and have joked around with each other. I wanted to know if there are any signs or things I can look for to find out if she does.

2006-10-17 01:04:56 · 11 answers · asked by kirr45 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, if you found out that your guy was after onother lady, what would you set out to find about the other lady?

2006-10-17 01:04:25 · 13 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Singles & Dating

that was very precious to you and hocked it. would you disown them.

2006-10-17 01:04:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you remember when we used to nag our kids for spending too long playing computer games,and we could never talk to them.
Well are we not now all guilty of the same thing.Spending hours at a time surfing or here on Q&A.
Do you agree that the "computers" are taking over our lives certainly when it comes to leisure time,my kids seem to think so,of course I deny this but,are they right?

2006-10-17 01:03:21 · 10 answers · asked by mentor 5 in Family

it drives me mad

2006-10-17 01:02:33 · 15 answers · asked by chl_ farrell 2 in Friends

in realationships,in work

2006-10-17 01:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by paul s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 01:00:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating