when my boyfriend is nice when i get home from work and other times his just nasty and dont want to speak to me?
We live with his mother and they grew up in a bad house.( know what I mean?) We are moving out the end of the month. I just never know if i can smile or what cause his never the same with me?? im tired of this
2006-10-17 01:09:11 · 10 answers · asked by Charlene 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Life's too short to tie yourself down to a dis functional!
Unless you really do Love Him (and are prepared to put the time and effort into bringing him round?)?
Consider it! Long Term!!
2006-10-17 01:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is move out by yourself. This guy is moody, nasty and ignores you. It's not your fault he grew up in a bad house. If this is causing your boyfriend's problems then, he needs to deals with these issues before he tries to have a relationship. Moving out together is not going to change this guy's treatment of you. Would you want to move with a neighbor or coworker who's treating you this way. Of course not. It's the same thing here. The way he's treating you is stressing you out. Stress can affect you physical and mental health and you don't deserve that. Be kind to yourself and make a life for yourself without this guy.
2006-10-17 18:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he only like this around his mother...how does he act when you are outside the house? If he is 'normal' at other times Id say hang tight until you can get out on your own and that should solve things. MAybe living w/ his mom is stressful for him and he doesnt know how to handle it.
2006-10-17 08:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Charlene,
I now your a pretty and intelligent girl, when the time you got home think your boyfriend is also tired in his work, if you really love him you will sacrifice some things in your relationship. don't you now? Girls is the one who's handling the relationship of one family. Your intelligent and you now what to do
2006-10-17 08:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave sweetheart, it sounds like you are walking on eggshells to me and why would you want to live this way? I understand that everyone has bad days but you shouldn't have to be on guard every time you walk through the door. And what do you mean by a bad house? Elaborate on this a little for me please.
2006-10-17 08:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well things will never get better cause you live with a realivite. move out with just you and him and then see how things are between the two of you.
2006-10-17 08:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by ms01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him baby. Why do u simply waste ur precious life with this nasty guy. Anyway take fast decosions and act on it.
2006-10-17 08:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumping time
2006-10-17 08:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by god0fgod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off ! Ä°t's time to move on...
2006-10-17 08:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he want to get rid of you
2006-10-17 08:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋