it drives me mad
2006-10-17 01:02:33 · 15 answers · asked by chl_ farrell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You will just have to point out that you need your space. Perhaps say your busy and you will contact them when you have some spare time, this will allow you to pick the timing. I know its not that easy but you will have to try something otherwise you will end up loosing a friend!
2006-10-17 01:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously regard this person as a friend else you would not call them friend. Could it be that you and your friend were the best of friends [single] and that you have now met a man or another girl you want to be friends with. If that is so remember friends are for life and i think you should be more tolerant. If i was your friend i would be happy for you to sit me down and have a good talking out about what is worrying you. I would prefer you to be honest and tell me you dont want to be friends anymore instead of slagging me off. I would then go my own way and regret all the times i had been there for you and i would be thankful that i now know the truth and get out of your life as fast as i could.
2006-10-17 02:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really this person's friend, then you'll sit down with this person, and have a heart-to-heart talk about the situation. Don't be mean, but be honest and up front. It could be that NO ONE has been nice to this person, before, and this person wants to be near you because you've been nice and friendly and respectful to this person. If this person is mature, then s/he will respond accordingly and change his/her behavior. That's what friendship is all about, anyway. You are there to lovingly say, "Hey, you might want to correct this......" or, "Did you really mean what you said?" etc. You're not much of a friend to anyone if you ignore this, and then in turn, ignore him/her. and drop him/her like the proverbial hot potato.
2006-10-17 01:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, then do no longer check along with her approximately it. rather, provide up telling her what all you're doing so she would have the ability to no longer understand your plans. She could nonetheless be able to repeat you rather yet no longer each and every thing i do no longer think of this could artwork. it is going to hold approximately a combat besides). the actuality is which you DO might desire to speak to her. purely tell her on the outset which you're no longer likely to get right into a extensive combat over it, yet clarify to her which you like some area. If she insists on arguing and starts to start a combat, purely say, "I advised you i'm no longer stepping right into a combat with you approximately this," and walk away.
2016-10-02 09:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to follow his/her every move ('till death'-don't stop to early).When remark arrives explain.After that you will know whether to continue the friendship or to move.
2006-10-17 01:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by oceangleam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By following your friend's every move. Hope you got my point..!
2006-10-17 01:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Shaks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask what they like to do and then I would began to do the things that they liked to do
This would give them a purpose other than following you
2006-10-17 01:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm... ypu just have to say.. Or drop hints..like 'I'm going out but i can't have anone with me, sorry.' Or you could just go behind their backs but then again thats not the nicest thing to do. Sorry can't be much more help.
2006-10-17 01:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ellis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what do you feel,that friend wants to be more than a friend,you have 2 choices,get more involved or get rid of him or her as a friend!
2006-10-17 01:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u need to be alone u dnt need anyone following u around all day and night
2006-10-17 01:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by pauline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋