Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

I was with my girl for over a year and recently we split up due to her infidelity. She told me the truth and seemed genuinly remorsful over the incident. Please take into account that she has real issues with committment, and her mother was pushing her to marry me. We agreed to split for now, so she could figure out what it is she truly wants. Since then I have heard from her family that she has been crying over the ordeal every day since we split. Her mother wants us to get back together saying that noone has ever treated her daughter as good as I have. I still love her yet, I am hesitant to jump back into a relationship with her. I want her back but, Im not sure what to do! Any advise would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-17 02:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by Thanatos 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy who I think is a pathlogical liar and I just don't understand if he actually belives what he says or does it just sound good.

2006-10-17 02:15:55 · 16 answers · asked by jeleaya82 2 in Friends

My husband and I were invited to an Adult only wedding. My husband said when he found out "well that one will never last" I was shocked that he would make such a statement and demanded he explain. He says out of the 22 weddings we've attended 7 were adult only. And all but one of those 7 have ended in divorce were as the others there has been only about 25% ended in divorce. I see his point, does anyone else see the same trend?

2006-10-17 02:15:44 · 8 answers · asked by Tara R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 02:15:34 · 4 answers · asked by Tony B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going to a banquet which my ex will be there. I'm taking my new boyfriend as my guest. Theses two have never met but are about to.

2006-10-17 02:15:02 · 15 answers · asked by Rufus 1 in Weddings

sure it is not an affair- I get insulted one minute and cuddled the next. I get shouted at one minute and then I get told "I love you" the next. I am so confused with this, when I try and talk about it my spouse refuses to admit that this is happening and has never admitted blame for anything that has gone wrong in our relationship- NEVER! Even if it is obvious. I noticed my spouse is irritated with the "little" ways (habits) OF OUR 7 YEAR OLD AS WELL AND MAKES COMMENTS THAT PUTS him down. No matter what I do or say, I will never get my spouse to see or admit these things, NEVER! I am going crazy, I am starting to feel I do not want to go home after work anymore, if it was not for our children (2)- I feel lonely, my spouse has good qualities as well, this also keps me there. I have even thought that my spouse is trying to drive me batty by doing this, or that I am imagining things and I am the batty one. But, our 12 year old daughter is now being effected by this behaviour.

2006-10-17 02:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by Tye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 02:12:07 · 4 answers · asked by zanzabarr 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

one of my good friends has been abused at home by his alcoholic father who comes home high and drunk and starts beating him and his mother. its been going on forever but he just recently told me. i wont go into how badly his dad beats him, but its severe. and it needs to stop, and i want to help but i dont know what to do. i havent told anyone yet because he told me not to. and yeah, i know, i can tell child services and they wont give out my name. but all they do is search their house & interview (i've had them come to my home before), and i know if they dont find anything out (my friends mom is scared too & wont tell anyone either), his dad will just get angrier and beat him EVEN worse. whats even more wrong is that my friend thinks he deserves this! so what else can i do that will be effective?

2006-10-17 02:11:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 02:10:33 · 14 answers · asked by sweetyenah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

single and looking for free dating sites with no credit card deposit etc

2006-10-17 02:10:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm planning to give birth for two child... a daughter and a son hopefully. I wish I could ask my mom directly, but she's already died.... This is a question for every mother out there, how tough is it to become a mother? When is the toughest time as a mother? Can you share me your own experience?

Thanks and BTW, I love you, Mother. Whether you're there or not, you will always be in my heart....

2006-10-17 02:09:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am an 22 years old smart, slim, tall, young guy working as a waiter in the london city my job is such that i do communicate a lot with the people but its just that i can't talk to a beautiful girl in such way that i can get her i bed with mine pls help ----- sunny

2006-10-17 02:09:01 · 18 answers · asked by sunny0909 2 in Singles & Dating

How Do I Win My Ex Boyfriend Back. He Ended It Because He Said He Was Stressed And Needed Some Freedom. I Have Give Him His Freedom And Just Want Him Back. I Love Him And Miss Him So Much!! Please Help!! x

2006-10-17 02:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Want to spend upto £60

2006-10-17 02:07:09 · 12 answers · asked by monicker 2 in Friends

Theres this gurl i like in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her and once i even gave her a teddy bear and i've been really nice 2 her without her acting diferent in any way. But in the last few days i've noticed that shes acting diferently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me. When she says bye 2 me shes starting 2 say it in that i like u-ish tone. Has she picked up my signals and started 2 like me or is it just my imagination?

2006-10-17 02:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone does something that really hurts you and makes you feel so bad, can you really ever totally forgive them or is it just too hard?

2006-10-17 02:05:54 · 41 answers · asked by Moth 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

In India ... I guess its normal thing , but the problem is am not sure I am a woman's man . I do have crushes etc...but still ... There are instants when I feel totally different from females , I dont share their aspirations or interests .
Like shopping chit chatting with neigbhour ... I dont like all these things and I am pretty shy human being . I never feel positive when I am with a woman , like wud she accept me , can I be fit for her sorta stuffs ...
Its a mixture of superiority and inferiority complex .
Mostly when I meet females I tend to think about the nubile factor and often I feel she is not my match and that put off my relationship with her . Its all SKEWED really , dont you think ? I feel so numb as a social being ...

All I want is please gimme some advice on being a normal person ...who is friendly with girls etc...

Has anyone had their sorta feelings? I wud be glad if you cud with me ur thoughts...

2006-10-17 02:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by WaterGuy 3 in Singles & Dating

Means unhealthy women can stay alone ,when husband neglects? Is there any sources? This is one of my friend dougt

2006-10-17 02:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by chinnivanaja 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get over him, but I can't because he lives RIGHT accross from me. I t is soooooooooo hard, his parking spot is right in front of mine too, so that when he is gone alllll night, and i have to leave for work at 6am, I see his car gone, and where else is he going to be alllllllll night, but over a woman's house. HELP! It is soooooooo hard to get over someone when they live right accross from you.

2006-10-17 02:04:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

most people on the internet think because you like talking you fancy them or that your after cyber etc? is there anyone who likes just to talk and get to know people?

2006-10-17 02:04:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So there were these two girls .Let's call them Ria and Mia. Ria told Mia something. And Mia teased Ria about it and told some people. Ria kind of overreacted about it and asked Mia why she said it. (Mia and Ria were the best of friends.) Mia got mad and walked out while Ria was talking. Ria tried saying sorry countless of times but Mia wouldn't forgive her. So tell me, whose side are you on, Ria's or Mia's?

2006-10-17 02:04:03 · 13 answers · asked by Hey look at the Sun 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sorry for my english.
I am an aupair girl in London since 1 month and my boyfriend live in Luton and we can see only on sat or sunday,
But is it possible our relationship could last?
Could you help me if you live a same situation, please?
Thank you

2006-10-17 02:03:45 · 8 answers · asked by londres france 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I know has been chasing me for years. We havent slept together, we have only kissed eachother. How can I tell if he really likes me and is not just chasing me to try and sleep with me?I ended my 6 year relationship a few months ago (not coz of this guy)so am not familiar with what signs to look out for!xxx

2006-10-17 02:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 02:02:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

know the girl is know for being sexually active and they alway pick them as their girlfriend whatsup with that what about the nice girl what about us!

2006-10-17 02:01:20 · 28 answers · asked by Stephanie I 1 in Singles & Dating

im so confused and dont know what to do..im sick of acting like everything is ok...when in reality everything is going SO wrong...ive tried to get my life back in order but it just seems like when i fix something...the whole world comes crashing down on me again. ive been so depressed lately and all of my friends dont understand why because "im such a funny and happy person"
its not like im being abused...i have a GREAT home life...school is my problem and is effecting every move every move i make and everything i say...im only 15 and i need some advice on what to do to get my life back in order...

2006-10-17 02:00:48 · 17 answers · asked by dancinXonXtheXrooftops 1 in Friends

The other person looks at you and you feel a tingling sensation in your stomach and then everything gets blurry? Does this mean love....or infatuation? What is going on here? I am loving this feeling but I am scared. Best advice on how to handle it please.

2006-10-17 01:59:53 · 11 answers · asked by akiastatz 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I had been dating 18mnts. Shes very attractive so I would try to get her to less revealing stuff. She used to wear stilletos and mini skirts and tube tops to school, and it did wonders to me. We fell in love and I got tired of guys always checking her out. So I started being more concered with what she wore: you know longer skirts and I would ask her to wear a jacket or something to school, since everyone knows how young guys hormones are! At first she was fine with this because we were in love and everything. We also both agreed that while we were dating, neither of us would do drugs, drink, or "hangout" with people of the opposite sex. Well about a week ago, i don't know what happened but we broke up and now shes totally REBELLING! Shes going against everything we stood for. Shes constintly flirting with multiple guys, wearing hoochie clothes, smoking pot, drinkin, and everything! What can I do to make her realize she's ruining her life and any chance with me again?

2006-10-17 01:59:38 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy4thisgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 01:58:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my mum met this guy called dave and started dateing him for about 3 months afew years ago but it didnt work and now they are best friends.I go out to a nightclub with my friend and dave ,s son works there hes the same age as me 19 and he no,s iv been in a 4 and a half year relationship but im now not with him anymore .his dad said to my mum that he fancies me and my mum and his dad said we will all go out 2gether one time for a meal he said yes.my mum and i whent out with dave to the night club that chris works at and dave said to him are we still takeing jayne(mum) and melissa (me) out .he said yes so my mum said do you want to take my melissa on a date had he when bright red and told his dad to shut up.the night after i text his dad 2give him my nom and his dad text me back saying he will text 2moz but he didnt.so i text his dad to give me his nom and i text him saying hi and i text him about 5 times he only text me back 3times.do u think he likes me and what should i do please help

2006-10-17 01:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by melissababe000 1 in Singles & Dating