Sorry for my english.
I am an aupair girl in London since 1 month and my boyfriend live in Luton and we can see only on sat or sunday,
But is it possible our relationship could last?
Could you help me if you live a same situation, please?
Thank you
2006-10-17 02:03:45 · 8 answers · asked by londres france 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is the best way to start a relationship. When my husband and I started dating we only saw each other once every 2 weeks and school holidays. It went on like this for 2 years. We trusted each other completely. The great thing is that you still have time for yourself. When you first start dating, you're so all over each other that sometimes you loose track of reality. This way you have time to absorb it all and take things slowly. The way it's supposed to go. There is other ways to stay in touch. Phone and text. This way you'll also spend more time getting to know each other, rather than getting down to the good stuff. Leave that for Saturdays!!!!
2006-10-17 03:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by liz m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can last if you really want it to. My husband was in the Navy when we first met and I pretty much never knew when I was going to see him, it could be one week or six months. If you really love each other then you need to work at your relationship together. But you also need to make sure you have your own friends to keep you sane when you can't be together, don't sit around moping if he can't see you. It does work though, we've been together for 17 years now so good luck.
2006-10-17 09:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Georgina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship will take lots of trust and lots of work. I did it for three and a half years. We spoke everyday, sometimes two and three times a day. Told each other everything and kept each other informed of what was going on in our lives. And in case you're wondering, we lived 300 miles apart. Good Luck.
2006-10-17 09:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by char_656 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can last but u have to have trust and faith in each other and the relationship or else it wont last... Once a week ah ?? try once every six weeks that's how often I see mi fiance
2006-10-17 09:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are talking on the phone and or texting as well as seeing each other there is no reason why it can't work!! Take it slowly and see what happens!!!!
2006-10-17 09:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't bear it move, I did now I have been happy for the last 6 years because of my decision. Isn't love wonderful?
2006-10-17 09:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah course it can, that happened with me and my girlfriend, now we see each other 4/5 times a week, just hang in there and you'll reap the rewards
2006-10-17 10:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by me-jus-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can last i never even seen my boyfriend phsically ive seen pictures we write to each other and have been for 2year i love him how can i love a man i never seen i love his inner being first before his phsical being it can work trust me after 2yrs im going to my man so there is hope
2006-10-17 09:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by rogshona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋