I was with my girl for over a year and recently we split up due to her infidelity. She told me the truth and seemed genuinly remorsful over the incident. Please take into account that she has real issues with committment, and her mother was pushing her to marry me. We agreed to split for now, so she could figure out what it is she truly wants. Since then I have heard from her family that she has been crying over the ordeal every day since we split. Her mother wants us to get back together saying that noone has ever treated her daughter as good as I have. I still love her yet, I am hesitant to jump back into a relationship with her. I want her back but, Im not sure what to do! Any advise would be greatly appreciated.
2006-10-17 02:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by Thanatos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she need a second change. some poeple once a cheater alway a chreater but that is not true at all poeple can change if they want to. and thought god to. if you want her go have a talk with her and pray about let god help you out with it everyone needs more then a second change i think.
2006-10-17 02:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sabrina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest if yall really love each other then yall are willing to give it another try. If she has commitment problems then you should try to help her out.Either with couseling or something. But if she cheats again then you would just have to move on. Hope my advice helps.
2006-10-17 09:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave this one alone, sounds like a complicating life if you two decide to get together and stay that way. Why are the parents so involved, I don't know...I'd leave this alone...
2006-10-17 09:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by ohsouncertain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not go back. if she is crying then good. she cheated and if you're soft enough to go back to her she'll know you are weak and will cheat again except this time won't tell you.
move on and let this be a lesson to her.
or.. go back with her just long enough for you to cheat on her and then dump her again. then you're even.
2006-10-17 09:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Pablo78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as Dr. Phil would say
Past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior... you take it from there dude
2006-10-17 09:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..then don't jump. just take it slow. maybe take her out to lunch one day or something.
2006-10-17 09:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋