know the girl is know for being sexually active and they alway pick them as their girlfriend whatsup with that what about the nice girl what about us!
2006-10-17 02:01:20 · 28 answers · asked by Stephanie I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys want sex at the end of the night, and those girls give it freely.... The guys are immature. Hold out as there are a ton of nice guys out there that will pick you, honey. Be happy with who you are. The other girls will have problems by the truckloads in the future...
2006-10-17 02:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is called growing up. Men, just like women, go for the wrong people. It is no different for a woman either. Ever notice that girls love the "bad boy"? While young a woman often gravitates to the guy who is mysterious, rebellious, unpredicatble... and all in all an a**. Guys often go for the sluts, the ones who they can have a "good time" with.
I will turn this question around to you. Just as guys go for the wrong girl, why are you going for the wrong guy? This question was obviously brought on by your being attracted to a guy who went for another girl. You think this girl has "loose values". Well why are you pining over this guy? If he cannot go for the right girl, why should you waste your time? Because you are going for the guy who you can change. It works both ways, and is something both of you will have to outgrow.
Luckily there will come a time in life where the "nice ones" get their due. The guys (the ones worth having) get past the sluts (if they ever wanted them... something to think about). The girls stop wanting the bad boy that treats them like dirt. It is somewhere around 23+ that this starts changing, and patience will pay off. I know this is no consolation now, but you will really be better off without these jerks... and maybe keep your eyes open for that guy around that would treat you how you deserve. Remember the nice guy too... and he may be too shy to approach. Just a suggestion.
2006-10-17 02:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Craig B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing most men, boys whatever think with their private parts. The mature a man becomes he can see past his hormones and see a woman for who she is and not what her body parts look like.
And for the nice girls, maybe it's not the boys or men thats in the wrong for picking the sexually active girls, maybe it's the nice girls wanting the wrong type of Man or boy! Stay in your leauge! If your not having sex or not bed bouncing all around then you need to start looking at men or boys who are not doing that also !
And trust me there are some nice men and boys out there for the nice girls and women!
2006-10-17 02:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys who pick the girls with a reputation if you get what i'm saying.. aren't really with her because they want her as a girlfriend.
They're just looking for sex.
Those guys did pick the right girl for them .
But the thing is they are the wrong guy for you.
And don't worry there are plenty of guys out there who are looking for more than just a good time.
2006-10-17 02:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do it because all they care about is one thing, and they know those types of girls will give it to them easily. However, that's probably not the type of guy that you want anyway. Eventually guys get sick of those types of girls and they'll want someone who actually means something and who they can care about. We're not all like that though, and some of us know how to appreciate and treat a good girl when we meet one. You'll find a good guy, and your best bet is to not even waste your time on the guys who don't like the nice girls cause they aren't worth them anyway.
2006-10-17 02:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tgrman80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Reason: They want someone who is willing to give Sex, quick, whenever they want to have it.
Guys do love sex, so do we girls. So when they see a sexually active woman, who has "open to sex" written all over, they grab for it. And that leaves alot of us good girls behind. If these guys only knew, that we girl, who dont have sex with every dang guy out on the street, would give them love, friendship and Sex, theyde choose us. A man may choose the easiest route, but in the end they want that one girl, who has kept herself clean, and is ready to start a true realationship, even marriage.
So I encourage you good, girls to not give up, You man is out there, just wait and be patient! Believe me its worth it!
2006-10-17 02:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't count the other guys out. In every school there is a group of "nerds" - these are the best guys to date, trust me. They may be dorky now, but they never expect anything from you, and they will most likely be successful in the long run.
2006-10-17 02:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sexually active is WHY they go for them; at that age, they're not looking for a wife or even a girlfriend - they're looking for SEX.
Good girls know better than to stoop to that - congrats.
2006-10-17 02:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys want the sexually active girls to entertain themselves before they decide to find the nice girl to marry. You don't want the guy who is just trying to put another notch in their belt. Remember, things come to those who wait.
2006-10-17 02:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by dxle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want the nice girl to marry and take home to Mom. If they're not looking to settle, then they want the slutty girl. Don't look for it to happen, just wait and let it happen naturally. These things take time.
2006-10-17 02:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by ScurvyWarthands 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋