I want to get over him, but I can't because he lives RIGHT accross from me. I t is soooooooooo hard, his parking spot is right in front of mine too, so that when he is gone alllll night, and i have to leave for work at 6am, I see his car gone, and where else is he going to be alllllllll night, but over a woman's house. HELP! It is soooooooo hard to get over someone when they live right accross from you.
2006-10-17 02:04:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is never easy getting over someone you love, but it does happen eventually. Everyone is saying the same things and it does get frustrating hearing it over and over again. Time does help, but so does having people to talk with you. Counseling can help you out a lot, i highly recommend talking with one!!!!!!! Spoil yourself for awhile concentrate on making yourself happy, you deserve it girl. Take the good memories you have and drop the not so good and chuck it all up as a learning experience so that latter when you do meet that someone special, you are not bitter and can move on without hesitation. This way you can have a clean slate without that nagging "voice" saying that well that happen to me so now everyone (new man in your life..friend...etc..)is going to be same way. Could you try and have a close friend stay with you for awhile, or maybe you stay with a friend so that you do not see his car everyday, change your routine a little bit so you do not find yourself constantly looking for his car or wondering what he is doing. Get out, have fun, relax and remember that no matter how dark you seem now, it does go away.
2006-10-17 02:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by sweetyenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I wish My Family Loved Me Or I also Wish I had A family And Maybe This Guy From My Class I'm TotallyIn Love With Him But he dosent Know I Exist =[
2016-05-22 08:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Drea, I am so sorry for your situation it is terrible. I would suggest you have two options, have a couple of girlfriends come and stay over and keep u busy for a while so that the focus is not whether he is there or not. If this is not a possibility, look into moving...I know it seems harsh, but if you can't stop checking on him it is going to eat you up and you deserve someone who wants to spend the night with you. :) good luck
2006-10-17 02:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by brazilian76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your spot and the best thing to do is to move out of that place cause all that place does is bringing back old memories that you don't want and keep your head up cause you will soon get over that loser
2006-10-17 02:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by maria l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy split up with me that i loved, and I had to work with him everyday in close quarters. I went through the same thing u are. Instead of sitting thinking of all of our good times and his good qualities and the love we used to have, i had to start to think and focus on his bad qualities and the reasoning's we split to begin with, and the hurt that he caused me and the words that he said to me that hurt so badly. Your mind can't focus on 2 emotions at the same time, so forget the good and focus on his faults. Once I did this I started to realize he wasn't so perfect after all and that I could even do better than him, and that is when my feelings started to change. Let him go and accept that he is getting on with his life and do the same. You aren't hurting him, u are only hurting yourself.
2006-10-17 02:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move...
or more sensibly
Get over him, start trying to other things were you aren't at home all the time so you don't have to be across from him....Maybe you should start dating some too...that always helps me.
Good luck ^_^ and keep your head up.
2006-10-17 02:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I feel your pain....time is the best healer but in the meantime get a replacement to help you move on.
2006-10-17 02:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by akiastatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though its hard getting over someone u love he obviusly dosent care for u as much it takes time but u are worth more u dont need him u just want him take care sweet
2006-10-17 02:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by claire g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either have to condition yourself not to look at his parking spot or make arrangements to move.
2006-10-17 02:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to the next block.
2006-10-17 02:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋