im so confused and dont know what to do..im sick of acting like everything is ok...when in reality everything is going SO wrong...ive tried to get my life back in order but it just seems like when i fix something...the whole world comes crashing down on me again. ive been so depressed lately and all of my friends dont understand why because "im such a funny and happy person"
its not like im being abused...i have a GREAT home life...school is my problem and is effecting every move every move i make and everything i say...im only 15 and i need some advice on what to do to get my life back in order...
2006-10-17 02:00:48 · 17 answers · asked by dancinXonXtheXrooftops 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would help you answer the ? but I;m going through the same situation as well and I feel so bad about a lot of things I decided to stop eating for a couple days
2006-10-17 02:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with you. We all go threw stuff as teenagers, our emotions run wild. Being a teenager is tuff and getting harder as the world is changing. Talk to your parents and friends about how you feel. Don't pretend to be something your not. They can't understand because you are not being who you really are inside. This is the time in your life when you start to learn how to deal with your emotions. Life is full of ups and down it does get easier though when you learn how to deal with stuff. You will learn some things just can't be fixed and you have to let them go. Try not to let your emotions get the best of you and just try and have some fun right now. There isn't a lot of time for fun as an adult so enjoy the time you have now. Don't expect your life to be perfect there is no such thing.
2006-10-17 02:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young. I felt that way when I was younger too. I'm 31 and have worked full time while going to college part time for the past 12 years, so I know how stressful school can be. You have to understand that things won't get easier as you get older.....you'll find many more obstacles that are even more difficult to overcome. Talk to your school counselor, your parents, a friend, or the parent of a friend that you're close to. Just take it one day at a time and things will work out for you.
2006-10-17 02:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by ScurvyWarthands 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're feeling that depressed then you need to first sit down and talk to your parents. Explain to them how you feel, and then maybe see if they can take you to see a counselor or something. Whatever you do don't give up. For you to be so young and feel this way about your life is sad. You need to just enjoy life while living at home. Life is a beautiful thing. Don't get discouraged things will get better.
2006-10-17 02:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to someone you trust who is understanding may be your parents or older sister, find out what really upsets you in your life and try to fix it, believe that everything in life has a cause and try to relax and enjoy your life whatever happens i.e. look at the full part of the glass.
you seem to have very nice friends that will make up for other things that annoy you. CHEER UP and have GOOD time :)
2006-10-17 02:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Nouny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down. goover your school work seehow your grades are. If they are down dive into them and make the change. It'll give you something else to dwell on instead of what ever is bother you.
Find out whats' your problem at school and take steps to correct it.
Maybe you need to finish school work early (homework) and get a few days much need sleep. but at any rate locate your problem. once you know what it is it's easier to whip.
It may be you need a few days away. it's possible you could take a friday, sat. and sunday off just to simmer down and relax.
Think about a job if you don't have one. few hours a week of work (physical ) is good for you..
Talk wiht your parens, and teachers and go over your problems.
2006-10-17 02:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 and I believe I had that school problem once :-) Just try to make the best of it,you are going to have to go to the school ,right?Try to stay focused and years pass by so quickly,you won't even realize.Believe me I never miss my school life and never will.But I had to finish the dame thing,I did and I am glad.Because it opens a lot of gates for me now.hang in there :-)
2006-10-17 02:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry to hear that. but things WILL get better, i promise. you just have to be patient. consentrate on school and get out of the house more. try to block out the bad stuff. and when things get really bad keep buisy with something. sometimes music helps. consentrating on one thing can help not to think about another issue. i know when im upset i actually like going to school and following a routine because if i am surrounded by normal things then it makes me feel like things are normal. i hope your home life gets better, no one deserves that kind of crap at 15. if you ever need some one to talk to you can message me if you want. im 15 too. =]
2016-05-22 08:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby ur life is just starting do what makes you happy live life don't let if live you 15 is a gentle age i have a 13yr old son so i know first hand direct your path know create your legacy and you will see how the bitter comes with the sweet live life baby enjoy your youth
2006-10-17 02:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by rogshona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, talk to your parents, you need to fix whatever it is that is bothering you, and if there is nothing that is triggering you feeling you may need to go to a doctor, and get some counseling, or some medicine. Depression is a real medical problem, not just an emotional one, and if you really are suffering from it you need to get help, quickly.
2006-10-17 02:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋