I'm planning to give birth for two child... a daughter and a son hopefully. I wish I could ask my mom directly, but she's already died.... This is a question for every mother out there, how tough is it to become a mother? When is the toughest time as a mother? Can you share me your own experience?
Thanks and BTW, I love you, Mother. Whether you're there or not, you will always be in my heart....
2006-10-17 02:09:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Being a Mother is going to be the hardest job you have ever had!! It is very demanding; and you never get a vacation!! The toughest time for me has been them turning into Teens! They are trying to become their own person; and they don't want to be controlled anymore!! Yet, they still need you!! It is very tough to maintain control of teens. "Becoming" a mother is the easy part; anyone can get pregnant!! It is harder learning to be a good parent!!! The teen years are definitely the toughest!! I'm sorry you don't have your Mom; that must be really hard!! I hope you have someone else to help you!! So, you are having twins? Is that what you meant?? I wish you the best!! Good luck!!
2006-10-17 02:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was overjoyed to become a mother. I have enjoyed every minute of it. Yes it's hard at times and there are times when you have to make decisions and you hope they're the right one that's when you go with your heart.
The toughest time I had with my son was when he left for college in onother State, I was devastated not having him around everyday anymore but that's when we have to give them their wings. Im very proud of him now, graduated and has a good job.
You will love being a Mom it's the greatest and most beautiful and rewarding miracle you will ever have in this world.
2006-10-17 10:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Nanci 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your lose. For some people is maybe tough to get pregnant but in my case it was very easy. I have 3 children. I personally think raising children is easy to me. It came natural. The tough times are when they are all fighting and don't want to get along, but children work it out, that is part of them being children. It would be easy to just be able to worry about myself (such as apartment, mornings etc.) But I've been doing this since I was 16 so I really don't know any other way. Children to me are easy, and fun. My 7 yr old is great in school. She is reading on a 4-5 grade reading level. My 5 year old is also very smart he tries to learn everything my daughter is doing. The baby is 1 and he is just a ball of joy. So I hope you can get some insight from this. Don't let people scare you. Children are not that hard if that is what you want out of life. Just have fun with them and thing will go smoother.
2006-10-17 09:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The really toughest thing I had to face so far is when my daughter started her period at age 12, the teenage years are coming up ahead and I guess that will be the toughest battle to face yet boys, parties , bad co etc.. Oh am not looking forward to that .
2006-10-17 09:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! It is extremely tough on you physically and emotionally but at the same time it is equally rewarding. The toughest time is trying to balance life. (work/home) and still make time for yourself.
Good luck I wish you the best.
2006-10-17 09:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the toughest part is watching your child hurt - physically or emotionally. To let them make the wrong choices and watch them suffer the consequences (within reason & age appropriately of course) is so difficult! If you don't, you aren't doing right by them - you're running their lives and being selfish instead of allowing them to develop self confidence and independence. The most important thing is their eternal lives - not their earthly ones. Be sure to teach them the ways of their creator and to love and serve the Christ first. That's the best thing you can do for them. Keep them strong in their faith and get them to Sunday school every week so they are firmly grounded in an evil world. God bless you and your family. ~Nise~
2006-10-17 09:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by newfsdrool 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When I was younger my mother once told me that it's the toughest job you'll ever have, but the most rewarding, back then I didn't know what she meant by that....I know now!
2006-10-17 09:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its TOUGH to be a MOTHER. Its a lot OF work. Those that HAVE kids though SAY its very REWARDING. There are PLENTY of places to get information ON raising KIDS. Good LUCK.
2006-10-17 09:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the toughest time is when everthing seems to pile up one you and you get all mad because you think you cant handle it but you can. Or when you kid starts to grow up and if they make a mistake you think its all you fault and blame yourself
P.S I'm sorry about your mother.
2006-10-17 09:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mom of 7 kids i have found the hard times are when they are 3 to4 and it hurts me to see one of mine hurt or realy sick or when i see one with a broken heart hope this helps
2006-10-17 09:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by ladycrazzyhorse20022002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋