sure it is not an affair- I get insulted one minute and cuddled the next. I get shouted at one minute and then I get told "I love you" the next. I am so confused with this, when I try and talk about it my spouse refuses to admit that this is happening and has never admitted blame for anything that has gone wrong in our relationship- NEVER! Even if it is obvious. I noticed my spouse is irritated with the "little" ways (habits) OF OUR 7 YEAR OLD AS WELL AND MAKES COMMENTS THAT PUTS him down. No matter what I do or say, I will never get my spouse to see or admit these things, NEVER! I am going crazy, I am starting to feel I do not want to go home after work anymore, if it was not for our children (2)- I feel lonely, my spouse has good qualities as well, this also keps me there. I have even thought that my spouse is trying to drive me batty by doing this, or that I am imagining things and I am the batty one. But, our 12 year old daughter is now being effected by this behaviour.
2006-10-17 02:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by Tye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your spouse needs counseling, if they wont you are better off leaving ,your kids will be effected and get in lots of trouble if you don't, Your kids need to be away from that,
2006-10-17 02:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your DR your spouse may be biPolar and need medication to control their symptoms. The kids will mimic this relationship in their relationships. If they are bipolar it is genetic and your kids could also end up with it. Modern medicine along with counseling can provide some help.
2006-10-17 09:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has to stop....or he will drive you crazy.....you c\cannot deal with somebody like this because you never know if he is in a good mood or crazy.......if he doesn't change you will have to leave him at least for a while until he understand he cannot be so humiliating/.
2006-10-17 09:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a split personality
2006-10-17 09:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋