Tell him how you feel and then ask him how he feels about the situation. Ask him if he's willing and ready to give it another try. If he says no, then he's still not ready for a relationship so just continue to be his friend but don't make him feel pressured. A relationship should never be forced. If he's not ready, unfortunately there is not much you can do. If you are willing to wait until he's ready, then that's your decision but honestly I wouldn't sit around waiting for him. Go on with your life and explore new friends. If it's meant to be, then the two of you will see your way right back to each other. If he wants space, give it to him but you cannot determine when he is ready for a relationship. Only he can make that decision.
2006-10-17 02:22:27
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answered by melcar12345 4
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It sounds like you are not ready to let him have some freedom. You sound quite possessive. Back off a little and show him that you can give him the space he needs so he is not so stressed.
2006-10-17 09:15:40
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answered by dxle 4
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You can't win your ex boyfriend back because he wants to have to come back on his own. Maybe he feels that he needs a break away to find out where his mind is at. I find with men that you have to give them lots of space in any relationship.
2006-10-17 09:21:23
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answered by Rufus 1
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Stress & Freedom = Wants to sleep with other women . Take it from there and don't be a fool .
2006-10-17 09:15:46
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answered by Geedebb 6
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You want him back then leave him alone. How can he miss you? I know you didn't write it but i'm assuming that you continue to call him or try to see him. Don't. Honestly, you are not going to win him back like that. You also have to seem happy and kind when you see him. Kindness kills. Don't flutter him with "I miss you and want you back." because he knows and if you do, he will try to avoid you as much as possible. If and when he gets back to you, you might not want him back. Try to meet someone to keep u busy.
2006-10-17 09:25:38
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answered by Rica 82 5
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What you do is get yourself together, and forget about him, because he has moved on with his life. Why would you want someone, who does not want you? He is not the only man in the world. Trust me their is someone out their for you. Now you have to take your time, and find him, take it slow, so you can get to know him. that way you can see if you are compatible! Your ex is a lost cause.
2006-10-17 09:20:56
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answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6
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As bad as I hate to tell you this, freedom does not mean time apart, it means I want to be free. That means you should move on with your life, you can't beg someone to love you. He either wnats you, or he doesn't you can try one more time, but, I'd brace myself for a let down.
2006-10-17 09:19:02
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answered by LittleLady 5
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Well there is nothing you can do to win some one heart back once it's change,but you can only be there for that person.Your ex don't seem to be inters ted in you still maybe he's moved on and you should to.
2006-10-17 09:20:20
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answered by leah 2
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Don't be desperate,if he needs his freedom,you have nothing to do but wait.That's usually a lie though.I need my freedom means I want somebody else.I think you should forget him and move on...
2006-10-17 09:18:46
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answered by Anonymous
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While it always hurts to lose someone we care about we can not make them care back. Get over it... GROW UP... life happens.. It will hurt for a while maybe a long while but try to move on
2006-10-17 09:17:09
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answered by dumpllin 5
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