Ladies, if you found out that your guy was after onother lady, what would you set out to find about the other lady?
2006-10-17 01:04:25 · 13 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I would just ask Him......and hope that He was honest, either way, I would step back, out of the picture and give "them" room.
I don't see the point in making life tougher than it already is and figure, if He wants me, He'll stick around.
The same goes, with the tables turned, if I find myself interested elsewhere, I would tell Him and I would want Him to "bow out gracefully" also....
2006-10-17 01:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just out of curiousity, I'd like to know what she looked like. Just for the simple fact that we're very compatiable and we "get" each other. So it'd have to be a physical thing if he was after someone else (even though I'm not too bad on the eyes myself). Other than that, I don't wanna know anything else. But I would definitely cut him loose. If he feels he needs to go after someone else, then we're not meant to be together. Why waste my time on someone who doesn't want to be with me and only me?
2006-10-17 08:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself would try to find out anything and everything about her.
All the good things and all the bad things.
I wouldn't fight with her over the man cause if the man were happy he'd stay right there with her.
But I would be sure to let the man know everything I found out,whether face to face or in a descreet way.
2006-10-17 08:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I would take to my boyfriend and see what went wrong. If he said that she threatned me or birbed me or blackmailed me i'd go find her but i wouldn't go out of my way to find her if my boyfriend gave up on me.
2006-10-17 08:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good could that possibly do?
If he wants to leave you, he is going to go. So, let him go. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-10-17 08:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, i wouldn't waste time or effert, i would get a new man
2006-10-17 08:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see if the other girl is prettier, if not, then it's time to let go of the jerk and say, "water seeks its own level".
2006-10-17 08:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldt bother finding out anything id just kick his sorry a$s.
2006-10-17 08:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out what he see in her! Especially if she's UGLY!
2006-10-17 08:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by virginmind101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing...because if another woman can have my man, then he wasn't my man to start with...
If you don't have trust and faithfulness you don't have a relationship.
2006-10-17 11:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by herenthere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋