Me and my boyfriend been together for a couple of months and we are in a deep love relationship. He have an bestfriend thats an girl.Its not really that she a girl its just everytime me and him on the phone she over his house,it be around 1 or 2 o clock in the morning when we get off the phone and she STILL be there.When she not there and we finally get time to ourselve all he talk about is her and when i say i dont wanna hear that he stop talking completely.
2006-10-17 01:25:03 · 14 answers · asked by Nell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's how you feel! Best-friends male, and female mix are difficult for most people outside the friendship to understand, let alone believe is perfectly platonic.
I am going to have to say trust him, meet his best-friend, and see where things go.
You know, yes he more than likely loves her, and can't imagine her not being a part of his life, but that doesn't mean he is in love with her.
Listen, visit, get to know them both better. A couple of months really isn't that great of time frame.
Oh! I am the female of a previous male/female best-friend ship. My best-friend would introduce me to his girlfriends, tell people he loved me, and so much more.
We actually lived together for two years, before going separate directions.
Communicate, communicate, and communicate. Take your time.
2006-10-17 01:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong to be jealous,but it's painful.when you realize that everyone you like may not be for you then you will realize you have nothing to be jealous of.Your fit is out here some where and just b/c you have picked a person that you feel you want doesn't mean that is the right person for you.every relationship hopefully prepares us for the big one,so consider these small loves as stepping stones to prepare you for when your true love comes.don't feel rejected by anyone,your love will come and you want to be ready mentally for him and in the mean time have a little fun and learn about different people and how you react to all these folks coming and going in and out of your life. Enjoy don't fret.
2006-10-17 08:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! you have every right to be jealous sweetie. I would be angry. His actions are very disrespectful to you. If he had any class at all, she wouldn't still be at his house at 1 to 2 AM. That is just ridiculous. I think you should part as friends and move on to a more mature relationship. He obviously has a lot of growing up to do. You are setting yourself up for heart ache. Be carefull, coming from Texas.
2006-10-17 08:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by COONASS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say you're jealous, just wary. You can always tell him how you feel or get rid of him. Him and her might have something going on when you're not around. She should not be over his house at 1 or 2 in the morning. And he should not be talking about her as much. This leads to other problems.
2006-10-17 08:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were into each other in more than a friendship way, they would be with each other by now. Everyone talks about their friends it just happens to be a female in your fellas case. Being jealous will turn him off you and it will be the end of your relationship if you can't find a way to get past it. She was there before you.
2006-10-17 08:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't being unfaithful to you, he will be any day now. A guy can't be around a "friend who is a girl" for long without touching her. And she's a home-wrecker without any regard for you.
Jealously is no fun, but it can be a warning signal. Get away from him before you are damaged to the point where you can never trust anybody. Easier said than done, I know.
2006-10-17 08:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GURL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i had to go thru all that with my ex. on his birthday and on new years he was with her...and we dated two years. when it happend to me i was jealous and suspicious. i suggest that if u want to keep him or really find out the truth u ask him y he always talking bout her. if he says " oh she's my vest friend", u tell him, "and? im ur gurl, u dont talk all that much about me". it seems kinda fishy that at that time of day 1 or 2 am she still there........ummmmmmmm, u better check that. or u can ask him how he would feel if u had a best guy friend and he was at ur house at the time and all u talked bout was him. we goota put men in our shoes so they see our point of view.
2006-10-17 08:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by boricuaspot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being jealous is nt wrong untill n unless d jealousy is bound 2 sum restrictions....u shud hv a talk wid ur bf askin him bout this bestfren of his....maybe dey r just frens who confide in n share everythin bout each othr more den to other ppl...it cud on d othr hand also mean dat after uve come into this guy n also her life she feels scared of losing a fren(best fren 2 be precise)n dats why spends most of her tym wid ur bf(coz he'd b wid u on othr occasions)...u shud try n learn more bout her 4m ur bf n den gt 2 be gr8 frens wid her 2.....she mite turn out 2 b a gud fren later n ur bf will surely appreciate n luv u more 4 being gud n tryin 2 get 2 kno his frens....guys hate it wen their gfs dnt get along well wid der frens.....bt dnt give up on d jealousy altogether....guys do like acertain amount of girls being possesive bout their man...
2006-10-17 08:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by nellie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i am looking for my ex from when i was little, we got seperated when i started acting bad and got locked up for 5 years of my life for breaking and entering in an empty house
2006-10-18 09:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by rodangelbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong to be jealous, he should understand how it makes u feel and he should spend more time with u
2006-10-17 08:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by emaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋