Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

massage your feet after they serve you breakfast in bed or do prefer to keep them warm under the blankets? I can never tell which my girlfriend wants me to do in advance. If I massage her feet when she is with her girlfriend in bed sometimes she scolds me for making their feet cold, other times when I don't offer she takes out the whip.

2006-10-17 22:38:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has told everyone including her schrink that she found cocaine in the house. i took two test and both were neg. Her therepist then reported it to CPS. this was over three weeks ago. Cps did talk to my 8 yr old son at school on tuesa week ago. Will they be contacting me or my wife? anyone delt with false allegations like this before?

2006-10-17 22:37:25 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't like to beat around the bush and i usually tell it as is, w/a few exeptions of rephrasing the comment to avoid hurt feelings, but people tell me that it's better to lie sometimes. that's not who i am, unless i joke around. should i listen to their advice and be like everyone else around me?

2006-10-17 22:37:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-17 22:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 22:35:47 · 11 answers · asked by Kita 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 22:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by anxiousgirl888 1 in Singles & Dating

how to find the one??

and what to do if you found your soulmate, but after 5 years you realize this will be tough. since love life is poor (everything else is perfect, i love and admire him) and was from the very start. and every other girl thinks he might be her soulmate too(my bf is VERY charming and acts like understanding women) so i started asking myself if he just blinded me and my feelings are not so special ("soulmate-thing") because my bf puts up this kind of illusion for all attractive women he wants to impress?

i had deep thoughts and i know that i do love him. want to grow old with him. but is it possible i'm mixing something up and he is rather friend than lover?

i miss passion and real attraction. me and my bf flirt oftenly and behave like lovers. but i don't really feel it? he seems to play the role of the lover, but my feelings tell me he is just pretending and illusioning himself? i think he misleads himself and does not realize.. is such a thing possibe???

2006-10-17 22:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by india18 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 22:33:47 · 16 answers · asked by Cozy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband has hurt me so bad, this last insident has broken my heart deeply. He and my best friend have been secretly chatting with each other and I found out about this yesterday. I can not even do anything, im just in a state of sadness that i dont know how either one of them could do this. Both knowing how hurt i would be but they chose to do it anyway. they even had discussions around his dick! sick people in this world, does not anyone stand for marriage, and friendships? this hurts so bad. im glad hes gone, what a mean thing to do. i cant forget this ever! both of them talked total crap about the other before they decided to betray me.

2006-10-17 22:32:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 22:32:03 · 6 answers · asked by ATIP 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my biological father is currently in prison and is up for parol. He is in jail for trying to kill my family and i. but even after these years i for some very stupid reason i just want to know if he loves me. Hearing it from my step father isnt enough, i just want to know that even after what he has done he for even one day loved me. On fathers day all i can think is if he is thinking of his girls... it tears me apart becasue when i stay at a friends place i hear them say dad can you help me with this and that...but when all i can remember is him pushing me away. do you think i should talk or send a letter to him because no one believes how much it would mean to me to get a letter just saying that he once loved me.....

2006-10-17 22:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've heard a lot of foreign females dying for indian male lovers out there... The argument put forth is Indian men are passionate and far better and responsible than foreign men.(Besides they also have knowledge about kamasutra).

Is this for real ??... would you really go for a Indian Man than someone from your own country/race??

If true .. then are there any women out there with equal commitment and passion to sustain a married life?

2006-10-17 22:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well she asked me for advice but i didnt know what to say-plz help.this friend of mine met a guy on chat who really wants to marry her,makes 2 hours calls to her from another country,messages her etc.the problem is he wants her to see him naked and even cumming on cam.now she is a decent girl and does not like this at all-she even asked him to cover himself while on cam but he wouldnt listen-they both like each other but...she has this in her ind which is disturbing her that maybe he has been doing that for others and still doing when she is not online-what should she do to make her mind at peace-obviously if she asks him he would deny that he does it in front of others too...advice her

2006-10-17 22:31:08 · 3 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am still looking!!

2006-10-17 22:28:43 · 13 answers · asked by becciberesford 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend asked this guy out for me last year that i liked a lot...he said no but i didnt really care that much, i was a good sport...but now this year i think hes starting to like ME and i kinda like him back...but he hurt me, really bad so im afraid to start a relationship of any sort with him and we're both too shy too even think about talking about what happened last year. PLEASE help me! what should i do to break the ice and start over???

2006-10-17 22:27:58 · 7 answers · asked by B B 1 in Singles & Dating

I cant never ever cause im slitly big.

2006-10-17 22:27:10 · 13 answers · asked by Daniellaaa Babyyy :) 1 in Singles & Dating

do you like feet? My boyfriend has a mad/crazy/obsessive fetish with my feet..he likes me to get a pedicure every two weeks he only likes for me to have french tips..meaning clear polish and just white polish on the tips...when we make love he gives mad attention to my feet...licking them..kissing them...sucking my toes...at first (because i hate feet) I would pull back..now i kinda like it...how do you guys feel about feet? Girls do you like having your feet.........serviced?

2006-10-17 22:26:35 · 5 answers · asked by tanya 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 22:26:14 · 9 answers · asked by white wolf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw one of my friends kissing a guy.And i dont know what to say really.Is it bad?Or should I say romantic?

2006-10-17 22:26:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this a breach of privacy? rude?

Men do not do it, generally, although an occasional prick will. Well, not to me, anyrate.

2006-10-17 22:25:49 · 36 answers · asked by Perseus 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do some men in there early and late 40's appear to act so childish? And men in there late 20's and early 30's appear to be more mature. Whats up with that?

Just something that I have notice lately!

2006-10-17 22:24:28 · 9 answers · asked by Humming Bird 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 22:23:30 · 35 answers · asked by YO YO YO WASSUP 1 in Singles & Dating

I know its selfish to be loved. But I'm those get malfunction if things go bad. Now I've left him and go for some1 else but my heart is still pumping for him. In reality i know we'll nv get back.

2006-10-17 22:22:20 · 13 answers · asked by Sob Sob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 22:22:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend (female) says that we're close friends and that she doesn't see us being anything more. I respected her decision and we've still remained close friends. Everytime I mention a girl that I'm interested in she changes the subject straight away and does not seem comfortable with me telling her who I'm interested in (no dirty/sexual info). As a close friend (where we tell each other everything) surely this should not bother her??? Also when we speak about sex (we usually do anyway) I asked if the thought of us sleeping together would repulse her (asked out of curiosity-wudn't try anything). She answered that it would not.(we're very honest+open with each other!)Was her answer strange,seeing she only see's us as friends,surely the thought should repulse her???We also continue to see each other on a weekly basis, even though we don't live in the same town, even after she said there would be nothing between us?(her suggestion to meet, not mine). Is this normal??

2006-10-17 22:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

don't seem to be able to get into town but need to pay a bill using my debit card. .

2006-10-17 22:19:46 · 3 answers · asked by kalecajo 1 in Family

my daughter is 6 she had her tonsils out recently and her dad promised to be there, he turned up 5 hours after her operation. he says he will phone her and then doesnt even after me reminding him by text. she asked me why daddy always lets her down, i don't know what to tell her.

2006-10-17 22:19:37 · 15 answers · asked by noangel3 2 in Family

ive been been married to my husband for 4 years and before that off and on for 10 years. everytime i have sex it hurts inside. Ive been to doctors they have cleared all infections. I dont enjoy having sex because of that reason. anyone help

2006-10-17 22:18:52 · 11 answers · asked by chicken 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she loves me and i love her but i feel that i am always week and want to call her and send sms to her and she is ok with that but rearly she talk and send sms i feel she is stronger than me and she take all the control but i need to take control and feel like we are equal or i am not week what can i do and i want her to miss me

2006-10-17 22:18:06 · 7 answers · asked by lover boy 2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 22:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by Mintiez 1 in Singles & Dating