I know its selfish to be loved. But I'm those get malfunction if things go bad. Now I've left him and go for some1 else but my heart is still pumping for him. In reality i know we'll nv get back.
2006-10-17 22:22:20 · 13 answers · asked by Sob Sob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its not selfish to be loved..................its juz dat ur too sensitive!!
come on ur a human too u must have given ur ex reall precious moment...............
after all first love is indeed true n unforgettable love!!
2006-10-17 22:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question there. I trust in real love, only its hard to find though. As for the being loved, well, I think its a two part thing, y'know? Loving someone is equally as good as being loved because you make your loved one happy and it gives a sense of achievement. And for your last statement there, my advice is, just hang in there, eventually those feelings will fade and things will look better. Life will get back on track.
2006-10-18 05:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still believe in real love. In real life it is better to be loved coz no matter what happened there is always somebody who is willing to give you all his support. Sometimes when being loved by someone can caused more agony bcoz you will find that your partner will always pamper you and give in to you. In the long run you may find that type of relation too routine and may lack of excitment.
2006-10-18 06:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is tendency to ask for oneself to be loved after a love ordeal.
take your time to recover from the setback(s) but do not give up on loving someone when the actual time comes to be in love again.
in a relationship, there must be give and take. if you really want to be loved totally, the result can be very hurtful to the other party.
do not rush into another relationship too soon after a setback.
when the time comes, it comes.
good luck!
mercury of love
2006-10-18 08:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! I'll trust there is always real love. I'll strongly agreed with your statement "is good to be loved than to love". Both of you have to work up the relationship with understanding and tolerance; etc then you call "love". Not that easy, to sum up the word "love" because both of you also have to prove with action and reaction. Stand firm, and forget your ex. Work it up with your new BF, OK!
2006-10-18 05:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not selfish to be loved or want to be loved
yes i trust real love and the way is always bumpy
its better to love it can break your heart if its not returned but its still a wonderful feeling
2006-10-18 05:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, loves never fails. Galatians 5:22-23. References: Holy Bible. Just love both of the guys in your life as friends. Please focus on the postive influnence in your life. You will turn out a much better person in life sweetheart. This is coming from a woman's perspective. Friends....
2006-10-18 05:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Stacey Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on yourself first. Know who you are and what you want and your relationships will go better. I think we learn a lot out of each relationship we are in and sometimes we leave and sometimes they do. Dont stop hoping for the perfect person...but make sure you're completely ready for them by being a whole person...
2006-10-18 05:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by HumbleOpinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get back you have to move on. But don't commit the same mistake for the future. You have always to listen you heart.
There is a real love if you listen your heart.
2006-10-18 05:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can love some one and see that he loved us or not. both of them necessary. so take it easy and go on for the best relationship. gud luck
2006-10-18 05:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋