Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

i have bf and we've been steady for about 3 yrs and we are planning to get marriend next year. but he likes flirting in the internet and he lilkes to chat alot of women. but he told me that i am assuming things, we argued most of the times about these things. i know he signed up many yahoo ids but he always telling me that i am always assuming things about him. My male friend told me let him be he needs social life, as long as we are together, he said there's nothing wrong with it...should i get worried about these things?

2006-10-17 19:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by steph 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 19:08:27 · 8 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Singles & Dating

I was curious as to how many times a week people are intimate in order to be considered healthy. I know that it will vary from relationship to relationship, but my husband and I always disagree on this. We've been married for 4 years this November.

2006-10-17 19:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by It's Been Cool 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He cheated with my best friend and flaunted in my face, but i am starting to miss him real bad. He ask me to come home and he would never do anything to hurt me ever again so i thought it would'nt hurt just to go and talk but i'll be damned if the b itch was'nt there when i got there. he did'nt think i would show up so he called her. please tell me to get over it and stop being stupid, because i know in my heart he will never stop cheating.

2006-10-17 19:07:29 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Just imagine for a moment that everything was the same, but all of our body were absolutely transparent... instead of photos in IDs, there’d be voice recordings...

Without racial discrimination, with no need for diets (only for health reasons), TV would be a problem, but if humanity lived 19 centuries without it I think we could subsist.

In such case, who would we fall in love with? Would there be women rivalry? Would there be sexual abuse?
It doesn’t mean that we wouldn’t have body’s, they would just be transparent.

PS. I thinking of writing a novel with this idea, give me you’re feedback

PD2.Only one person gives me the impression of having a transparent body... like her soul. And this in reality... guesses who...?

PD3 I have a joke referring to this idea, if you want to read it give me you’re e-mail

2006-10-17 19:06:11 · 5 answers · asked by Leonardo Genteamable 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, so i got invited to this party and im pretty excited, it's mixed, there is like 60 people invited and yeah, the thing is tey all like to play truth or dare, and i've never played co-ed... they go pretty far except no sex or nude... but of corse making out is a big part of it, im 15, but i still havent had my first kiss, sad i kno but thats a different story, and i dont kno how i should react, im really nervous, what should i do?

2006-10-17 19:06:01 · 8 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 19:05:33 · 10 answers · asked by bhape 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 15 years recently left me for some tramp who lives in San Francisco (who knew about me and my children). He has never cheated before and continues to see her and lead me on that there is a chance he will come back to us. He doesn't want me but he doesn't want me to be with anyone else. I am so confused and heart broken. I need to be there for my kids but it is hard when I am trying to mend my own broken heart. He is all I've known since I was 19. I am now 33. This was so unexpected and so out of character for him to do. I am at a loss

2006-10-17 19:03:00 · 27 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love him with all my heart, when i go visit him, he still gives me the chills and the butter flies on my stomach. i feel like nobody could possibly understand what i feel inside for him. to me he is the perfect gentlemen for me. he is the only guy that i ever cried/cry for. when they gave him his sentence it was like somebody shot me in my chest with a gun, my heart was hurting like it had needles, that terrable pain would not go away even today. before he was locked we were only together for two weeks but it was the best time of my whole life...should i stay with him or just move on knowing i can not ever have him again...it will be like some titanic ****...he will be locked for 12 yrs....what should i do?

2006-10-17 19:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by oneday 1 in Singles & Dating

for the first time we went to the hospital and confirmed pregnancy from now itself my mother in law is asking my husband how much it cost for the medicine and at her time everything was free whether it is a govt hospital and all.we are expecting our first child and i feel very much worried as my MIL is so bothered abt the hospital cost.My husband is an engineer we live abroad and he earns well my mother in law spends lavishly for herself when coming to our child's issue why she is like this from the start itself her attitude is this in my case.I'm an educated women but my husband is not much happy abt me going for job.i afraid i may have to face these questions life long. My husband never says against his mother.my mother in law is a typical character who makes big drama out of small things.At this tme she even created a problem that we forget to wish his sister her birthday at right time my husband never used to do this before she says why u forgets all these things after marriage

2006-10-17 19:01:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 19:01:43 · 7 answers · asked by dilly 1 in Weddings

am i wasting my time just waiting for my price charming? i feel like i had him, but now were broken up because i took him for granted and we felt like we didn't love eachother anymore. But now that hes gone, i feel like ill never love anyone the way i loved him, part of me wants him back but i dont think he wants it, am i still in love with him? he was my first love and we dated for over a year..

2006-10-17 18:59:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when you're not interested in them they try to swoon you? And when you give them a hint of interest back they don't call or want to see you as often when they were trying to win your emotions. I'm so sick of playing these games!

2006-10-17 18:57:38 · 23 answers · asked by lil one 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 18:57:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from kindergarden all the way through 7th grade i had a crush on this boy from church and he had a crush on me, everybody knew it, and everybody would tease us about it. well i moved and changed churches and i didn't see him anymore. recently we have been talking online and he asked for my phone number and said we should hang out sometime and stuff like that, also we have never really done anything outside of church except like 7 times and they were mainly partys. i was wondering if you think he still likes me.

2006-10-17 18:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by JJS 1 in Singles & Dating

im a very clinging mum thats why his going to daycare at 2yrs 6mnths

2006-10-17 18:56:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's not that I'm lazy or anything...ooook, I am, but it's not my fault. It's my parents' really...their genes and they raised me. So is it possible to find a decent girl to marry if I don't want to work and I hate my life?

2006-10-17 18:55:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm currently looking for a color to match with this dress :

http://www.weddingannouncer.com/pictures/11384/customphotos/308631/full-size/raspberry.jpg

this will be my motif for my wedding.any ideas?

2006-10-17 18:53:43 · 22 answers · asked by daveigh 2 in Weddings

I love my boyfriend beyond words! How can I show him the love with out getting in his face all the time, kissing him and annoying him? I just want him to show his love to me and know that showing him the love he needs will help...any suggestions guys? Nothing is too crazy!

2006-10-17 18:52:45 · 7 answers · asked by Nervous Nelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf has always been pretty closed up but after some really deep conversations with her, she has opened up a little. On more than one occasion she has said that she used to see a counselor but stopped going, but won't go into any more detail than that. I had heard some allusion from one of her friends of sexual assault somewhere in her (the gf's) past. What do I do? I am there 100% for her, but it's just killing me that every time we take three step forward, we have to take 2 steps back, ya know? How do I even bring it up or suggest she bring it up? I know she has something she wants to tell me, and I know she's close to doing so, but I don't know how long I can wait.

2006-10-17 18:52:44 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is possible for a man in love to ask his girlfriend or wife for a threesome?

I am very open minded and not a prude, by any means - I can understand it with a friend or something but not with someone you love. (As warped as that may sound.)

I know the difference between love and sex but my key point here is if a man truly loves you, how could he want to be with someone else, even if you let him?

Or does a man who asks that not truly love the woman?

(I would never let my boyfriend do that, by the way but he says it this way - 'If you want me to do it, I will."
Yeah, right.
That is like giving permission to cheat, how does it make it better that I am present while it is happening?
I don't get it.
When I love someone, I don't want to be with anyone else and I wouldn't - even if they asked me.

What does that difference mean?

2006-10-17 18:52:24 · 13 answers · asked by Brownie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so proud that I have a loving and caring boyfriend however my mom does not like him because he is not a college graduant..and this is our main problem as of this moment.

2006-10-17 18:51:14 · 13 answers · asked by florj 1 in Family

Damn I love an Aries male.

Peace.

2006-10-17 18:50:39 · 6 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6 in Singles & Dating

You see i like 2 guys; jv and timmy. But i liked timmy longer and i like him better. jv is my bestfriend so i tell him EVERYTHING about me and my crush- timmy. i hurt him countless times coz i kept on doing that.. it just slipped out of my mouth. Now timmy is my boyfriend and jv found out because he read my txt messages to timmy. jvs really mad at me he said he doesnt want us to be friends. he wont talk or listen to me. he told carol one of his bestfriends and now shes mad at me too coz she likes jv better than timmy. the question is WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE JV FORGIVE ME? should i send pizza to his house with pepperoni saying sorry? what? please help!

2006-10-17 18:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex left me because we wanted to be with someone who wanted to have thresoms and he said i was to conservative i told him that i love him very much and that no matter what i will always be there for him... well he ended up having a threesom and the guy that him and his new man had the thresom with gave him an std and he called me and goes u prolly wont evr want to be with me again i told him i love him very much and will be there for him .. why do u think he called and told me what happen when could of been mean said told u so thats what u get for leaving me.. but i didnt i showed my true love for him

2006-10-17 18:48:43 · 10 answers · asked by Christopher A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if someone told you your a bad parent and you dont take care of your kids and its far from the truth? how would you react?

2006-10-17 18:47:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 30 year old female and have moved from Cape Town to East London and are looking for some friends I can chat to.

2006-10-17 18:47:35 · 4 answers · asked by Foxy 1 in Friends

today he came to buy something but we did not talk(we don't talk as much but he always smiles at me when he sees me) well today i went outside to talk to a customer and he came out of his truck and started to come closer and he told me let me have ur number. i was like shocked that he actually asked for it again and happy at the same time but i don't get it though its been almost five months the first time i gave him my number so today finally he asked me for it again. he told that i have gaven him the wrong number. so i gave it to him again and when i was leaving he asked me do i get a hug? so he gave me a hug... what do u think? plz hel me

2006-10-17 18:46:16 · 14 answers · asked by oneday 1 in Singles & Dating

We've only been married 3 yrs and we hardly ever have sex and I found out he's been sneaking behind my back watching dirty movies when I'm sleep.........

2006-10-17 18:45:37 · 12 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl but I know I would never have a chance with her. But I can't stop thinking about her. How do I tell her I really want to be her slave (if she don't want me as a boyfriend)? Should I ask her on my knees?

2006-10-17 18:44:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating