I really like this girl but I know I would never have a chance with her. But I can't stop thinking about her. How do I tell her I really want to be her slave (if she don't want me as a boyfriend)? Should I ask her on my knees?
2006-10-17 18:44:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I sorry to say this, but if she doesnn't want you as her boyfriend, theres not anything you can do to change that. Try looking into the Master/slave ifetyle online. Maybe you'll find someone else who's into the smae thing... and into you.
Good luck... Sorry about your love.
2006-10-17 20:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you think you have a chance with her? Have you ever asked her? Well, personally, if a guy likes me that much, I'd be really really really flattered. Don't ask her on your knees thou, that would just make her think that you are a freak. And also, don't take that lady's advice about keep asking her, that would just push her away, and she probably won' even wanna be your friend anymore. You shouldn't be so negative, what is it that you think that she won't like about you? To be her boyfriend, I think you should be her good friend first, and show her just how nice, thoughtful, and funny you are. I don't know if you ever seen that movie "Hitch"? Yeah, there's this guy who thinks he has no chance, but ends up getting the girl. He just doesn't know how attractive he really is. Maybe that's your case. Again, personally, I won't reject any guys just because he might be different than what I normally go for. I may not be attracted to him at first, but eventually if he's really a great person (remember, deep down, its' character that really counts) I will be attracted to him. But it will take some time. And, please, don't say or do anything stupid to her. I've had some bad experience with guys who try too hard, and it just kinda backfires. Be a gentleman who she knows she can rely on, you may just stuck to be her friend now, but once you think that both of you are on the same level, you will have a better shot to turn things around. Also, it depends on what kind of girl she is. If she is totally self-centered, self-obsessed, etc, then, you will have a problem. But hey, good luck!
2006-10-18 02:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Deesa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay for sure no begging that just makes you look like a push over. And you really only need to get on your knees if your planning on marrying the girl.
Lesson 1) Never assume you never have a chance.
Lesson 2) You obviously like her and if you've talked to her she at least found the time of day to give you attention when she could have been talking to someone else.
Lesson 3) Ask her out, if she says no accept it but don't give up try again at a later date (within a week).
Lesson 4) Remember you actually took initiative to ask strangers for help, that takes guts, use that courage and confidence when you talk to this dream-girl.
2006-10-18 02:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by NAUChica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know it's not that easy to just walk up and ask her.Other wise you would of done that already. why don't you try writing her a letter let her know how you feel about her.Also explain to her how this has not been so easy for you that's why you didn't ask in person.a little nervous about her reaction or answer or how she might feel about the whole thing and not wanting to loose her friendship.regardless of what the outcome may be. state that you are clear to understand her thought on this. And if there is a chance to let you know.and if there is the next thing you need to do is go to her in person and let it be known.and go from there. If for any reason it don't turn out your way or how you wish it would.
keep your cool and respect her thought. and go on as if you never asked, by this time she already knows how you feel and in the long run she might give in knowing how you feel about her and easier for her to get closer to you.
You just never know just keep your cool.. and if nothing at least you tryed and thats what counts..and remain friends and you will always be around her anyway
2006-10-18 02:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by huera 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, if you mean "slave" like I think you do, you might want to make sure that your love is into the same things you are before you do that, because it could be creepy.
How do you know you don't have a chance with her? Just tell her how you feel and see what happens. You never know!
2006-10-18 01:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd forget the knees, period. Just catch her hanging around when she's by herself or not distracted doing something. Walk up to her and introduce yourself if she doesn't already know you. If she does know you, ask her if she has a minute to talk, that you have something important that you would like to say to her. Then try the truth. If she's a nice girl, she will either tell you she is or isn't interested and you're no worse off than you were to start with. If she gives you some kind of smart-assed remark or brushes you off with a rude remark or something, then you're better off than you were to start with 'cause if she's that kind of girl, she ain't worth having anyway!
2006-10-18 01:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by poppyandbisquitsmama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha ha :) Nah. You don't have to go THAT far. If she is someone that you casually hang out with, why not say something? And never think that you have "no chance" with someone. Confidence is very appealing to women- although you may feel insecure, you don't have to let the world in on it. Sometimes just letting someone know that you can't get them out of your head (don't tell them in a creepy way), is a compliment. So make a joke about it, and see what she says. Flattery will get you everywhere
2006-10-18 01:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Cort 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First find out if she likes you back. And don't be desperate. Women hate desperate because it doesn't show love or security. Don't be her slave... that's just freaky. If she doesn't want you as a boyfriend, then most likely she just wants you to be a friend. Have some confidence! Wanting to be someone's slave doesn't show anything, but obsession.
2006-10-18 01:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you know that you can treat her right go for it ask her out, but if not then dont, girls love being looked after not smothered or mistreated. confidence and attitude shows a girl what kind of guy she gonna be with. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-18 02:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by motherof3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use some technic or physcology technic to attract her. Get some tips from dating side and apply.
Act like u dont like her, tease her more freuqent.. make her fall for u.
Never ever knee down!!!! Most of the gal attacted to the guys who can lead them..
2006-10-18 02:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mrjjvin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋