my ex left me because we wanted to be with someone who wanted to have thresoms and he said i was to conservative i told him that i love him very much and that no matter what i will always be there for him... well he ended up having a threesom and the guy that him and his new man had the thresom with gave him an std and he called me and goes u prolly wont evr want to be with me again i told him i love him very much and will be there for him .. why do u think he called and told me what happen when could of been mean said told u so thats what u get for leaving me.. but i didnt i showed my true love for him
2006-10-17 18:48:43 · 10 answers · asked by Christopher A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL, that's nasty.
2006-10-17 19:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sad. He called you because you were his closest friend and lover. Telling you was a way for him to say it out loud to someone, especially someone who cares about him. Confession eases a person's mind when they did something they regret. Unfortunately, his desire to be with not one, but 2 other men, led to his STD. He showed a complete lack of control by not using the appropriate protection and by not caring if he broke your heart. I hope his STD is curable and not Herpes or HIV.
His threesome was some fantasy/fling. However he placed his sexual desires over you, who was suppose to be his friend and lover. Shame on him for being so selfish.
Please don't take him back. I understand that you love him, but what he did showed that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. He does not love you in the same way that you love him and you deserve someone better. He was so concerned with his own selfish needs that it didn't matter to him that he hurt you and obviously himself.
Good luck, and you are much better off if you eliminate the heartless, selfish person from your life and find someone who cares about you.
2006-10-17 19:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by artist2213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't want u to be with him anymore so he said he got STD, or he still care for u and told u that he got STD so u wont get infected when u guys r back together.
2006-10-17 18:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let him suffer with his own STD, you can be his friend and still love him, just fall in love with a man that respect what you want. My man said the same thing, he wanted a 3-some, and my fear was catching something. It's real out here. I guess he knows now
2006-10-17 18:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh!! he probably told you because he had probably been doing it behind your back and didn't want you to be pissed if you caught something. Plus he wanted to see if he could come back because he knows you love him so much that no matter what he does you'll still be there. He wanted his fun he got it along with an STD. Watch out!!!
2006-10-17 19:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by tammidx24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like an evil cross between showing off what he can do without you and remorse for a bad intimate decision... Whatever happens between you two please be careful and use protection. Love is great but cannot cure STDs...
2006-10-17 18:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by thecup420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He called and told u about it because he cares enough for u to know about it to make a decision for yourself. U could still be his friend but as far as having sex with him again...well, u know the risk.
2006-10-17 18:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he called you to tell you cause he thinks no matter what he does you will stay around...thats good if you are friends but if you want to be with him then you shouldnt be so available......... he will keep doing what he is doing and you on the other hand will just sit around and wait
2006-10-17 18:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it too. He disrespected you by leaving you for some sex with other ppl. Please don't take him back! He called you and told you so you would feel sorry for him and he could come back to you with his tail between his legs. Don't fall for it, be strong. You deserve better!
2006-10-17 18:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How disgusting.
And you want him? Gag. Absolutely disgusting.
2006-10-17 18:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋