He cheated with my best friend and flaunted in my face, but i am starting to miss him real bad. He ask me to come home and he would never do anything to hurt me ever again so i thought it would'nt hurt just to go and talk but i'll be damned if the b itch was'nt there when i got there. he did'nt think i would show up so he called her. please tell me to get over it and stop being stupid, because i know in my heart he will never stop cheating.
2006-10-17 19:07:29 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think its "Him" you miss, I think its the idea of someone being there when you need reassurance, a hug, or other thingsits easy to stay in a bad situation because its easier, But I would rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong reasons, stand up suck it up and put your "I can do without him" pants back on, it takes awhile to get used to the single life,
2006-10-17 19:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is not your friend. Find someone that you like. In order to get over some in your past you need to find some else to help you get your mind off the person who wronged you. When their relationship fails just be strong and do not let either back into your life. Some best friends believe that you can share everything. Get over it stop being so stupid. I believe you will not be able to get over it until you can admit to yourself that I can do better. Once you start believing in that do what you have to do to better yourself. Look at it as a plus for you. If he cheated on you with your best friend there's no telling who he is or may cheat on her with. Look at is a great learning experience. You can not trust anyone with your man or best friend.
2006-10-17 19:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to step out of your body and look down on yourself. And then say " hey girl, its OK, I love you. Lets work together on getting over this thing, and moving forward. We can do it together. We have plenty of life and adventure in front of us. Come on lets go, I'll hold your hand the whole way"
2006-10-17 19:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to understand that a break up can be as emotionally hard as a bereavement
time will help but in the meantime you must try to keep yourself occupied nothing i say will help the hurt you are feeling but i promise you it will slowly get better
lastly try to avoid places ,situations where you may meet him
god bless
2006-10-17 19:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by jagkes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you please stop that stupid sadness in your life, dont let sadness flow in your life..
2006-10-17 19:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by freakybhabhie28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser, you should move on
2006-10-17 19:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋