I was curious as to how many times a week people are intimate in order to be considered healthy. I know that it will vary from relationship to relationship, but my husband and I always disagree on this. We've been married for 4 years this November.
2006-10-17 19:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by It's Been Cool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, for my husband and me it varies. He's gone a lot because of the ARMY, so we go months without and then when he's home we do it 3 times that day he gets back and then 1 a day for the next week and then a couple of times the next week because of his busy schedule. Definatley 2 on the weekends sometimes 3 or 4 depending on how I'm feeling down there. Deffinately not when I'm on the rag, that's gross to me and a good way to get infections. But lately, because of my hubby deploying soon, I havn't been in the best of moods and we've done it 2 in 10 days, and I've been really ill mentally and nauseated because of it, so, probably at least 5 more times during the weekend and next few days before he leaves, I'm gonna try and ignore being ill just so that I can give him something before he leaves. We have sex a lot and then we hardly have sex and I think we have an incredible healthy relationship. Sex doesn't define a relationship. It's just a bonus. My hubby and I are so awsomely connected psychically! We almost always think the same thing at the same time. We'r e on the same wavelength, the same page, we just mesh really well outside of sex. He understands how I feel and respects that, and I understand that he's tired when he gets home from work and I respect that. It's mutual how often we have sex. If I can't give it to him, I jerk him off, give him head, of make sexual noises for him while he's jerking it off. When he's had his share for the day and I still want to get off, he goes down on me. All this counts toward the numbers I gave you above. It's mutual. I'm not deliberatly keeping him from getting any, unless he's super drunk or we had a fight and we're both not giving it to each other, but then we do make up the next morning (which still counts in the numbers above)! And he's never deliberately keeping it from me, he ALWAYS want sex! I hope I helped!!
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2006-10-17 19:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic number. It varies from person to person. Some people need less than others. If you don't have time for as much intimacy as some would like, just show some affection. Long day at work? Offer your partner a massage before they barrel off to bed. Make hugs a common occurance. Eventually what holds you together is the friendship and loyalty in your relationship anyways.
2006-10-17 19:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Adrianna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship. My boyfriend and I do it anywhere from once a month to 3 times a week or more. Just depends on the mood, or how tired we are, or what's simply going on. But the relationship should not be based around how many times you get off in a week.
2006-10-17 19:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by lizkingwas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my girl are intament 3 times a day. we are not married but we have been together for 3 yrs. people think we are married. we do live together. i take breaks in between the 3 times a day and get a move and wack it at least 1 a day to were she has a minute to recover and we don't get tired of each other.
2006-10-17 19:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for almost 3 yrs and we do it about 3-4x a wk, sometimes 5 times and sometimes 2x...it depends on our mood and stress levels and I say this amount is healthy for us.
2006-10-17 19:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the only wat that can help you.If your mate doesn't agree upon seduce him he will run after you for sex.There are many ways to seduce like when your mate is tired after work you can take him to the bed room and get him naked and give a good oil massage over his body.As well as you also must get naked that's the best way to seduce your man you must increase you size and just pounce o him with a massage .This really works and you will surely get success.Try it out and give him a lot of massage after he comes home everyday.
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-17 20:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by asd1stranker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say 3 times a week, even though I would prefer every night.
2006-10-17 19:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to get busy with my lady 1-2 times daily. Sex is like a multivitamin. Take one daily... but 2 if you're still horny.
2006-10-17 19:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by HoneyLegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's he taking ,lol , properly you recognize to a number of of something isn't sturdy for you that still applys to intercourse, ur physique desires time to get better and if he's doing u that many cases he desires a activity
2016-10-02 10:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by spies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wit or withour sex, your relationship could be healthy. It dpends on you.. Relationship does not depends on sex..
But fro me.. i would prefer it everyday.;)
2006-10-17 20:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by Flory M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋