if someone told you your a bad parent and you dont take care of your kids and its far from the truth? how would you react?
2006-10-17 18:47:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my kids are 4 and 8 and very well taken care of, i work full time and when im working they are with my husband...everyone loves them
2006-10-17 18:55:04 · update #1
Mind your own business....and to f off. Nobody should be telling you what to do and not do with your kids. If you take care of them and your the one making sure they are safe tell that other person to go eat ****. They are clearly a moron.
2006-10-17 18:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Glittergirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just ignore them if it's far from the truth. If they said you were a chair and that's far from the truth, how would you react? Maybe their idea of a good parent is different from yours. Lets just agree to disagree. Try to look at the situation as an outsider, maybe you'll see something you haven't realized?
2006-10-18 01:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd tell them to mind their own business.....but then, I'm just blunt like that lol
It depends on who is saying it, and if they have any kids of their own.....too many people have their own ideas about what is the right way to raise a kid, and they don't think that their possibly good intentions could be offensive to someone else. So, with that said, I'd just take it with a grain of salt and keep doing what you are doing if you are sure in your heart of hearts that you are a good parent.
2006-10-18 01:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Erica R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself WHY this person would say that? Was it used just as a personal attack? I personally wouldn't care what they said. IF I knew in my heart that I'm doing what's right for my kids, why should someone elses opinion matter?
2006-10-18 01:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If it were a stranger, I would go off. If it were someone I knew I would be very hurt since I know I'm a good parent.
2006-10-18 01:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by chadiego70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on who said so. I know some lousy parents whose kids are failing school, but they scream at the teacher and deny their responsibility.
2006-10-18 01:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people REALLY need to be told this because it's true.
Look at all the azzhole kids running around nowadays.
2006-10-18 01:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont mind them. if they still do it though tell them "thats not true. LEAVE ME ALONE! u dont know what goes around in this house! we love each other and take care of each other! You dont have the right to judge me like that !
2006-10-18 01:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by pia_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if they aren't a parent themselves then they probably don't know what they are talking about. And if they are a parent, well, they should be worrying about there own kids.
2006-10-18 01:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jade64 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the perception is what people see not always what is true if you are defend yourself and remove the people from your life that accuse you of such if you are doing things that people see stop doing the things that come across negativley
2006-10-18 01:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋