how to find the one??
and what to do if you found your soulmate, but after 5 years you realize this will be tough. since love life is poor (everything else is perfect, i love and admire him) and was from the very start. and every other girl thinks he might be her soulmate too(my bf is VERY charming and acts like understanding women) so i started asking myself if he just blinded me and my feelings are not so special ("soulmate-thing") because my bf puts up this kind of illusion for all attractive women he wants to impress?
i had deep thoughts and i know that i do love him. want to grow old with him. but is it possible i'm mixing something up and he is rather friend than lover?
i miss passion and real attraction. me and my bf flirt oftenly and behave like lovers. but i don't really feel it? he seems to play the role of the lover, but my feelings tell me he is just pretending and illusioning himself? i think he misleads himself and does not realize.. is such a thing possibe???
2006-10-17 22:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by india18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Almost always, your gut feelings will let you know the truth. If you feel he doesn't really mean what he's saying, then you're probably right. Since you say he treats all attractive women in the same way he uses to charm you, it sounds like it might be just a game to him.
I think it might be possible for him to not really realize what he's doing. He may think he's feeling something more than what he is. Rather than being truly in love with you, he might be more in love with the idea of being in love.
2006-10-17 22:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by goldenrose82 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
boys thinks like that
if 1 goes other comes
to find atrue lover its too difficult
i know because i am a boy
but i am different than others
2006-10-17 22:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember Friend to everybody is friend to nobody.
God has given females -sixth sense.So,what UR heart is saying is true.
This guy can ditch you.
2006-10-17 22:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by dentist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face him with Ur feelings
tell him what u really feel.
Do not hesitate
2006-10-17 22:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by mdsubahi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best who can answer your questions is yourself cause your the one who can feel his love and sincerity.Why don't you give each other time and space to think about it.
2006-10-17 22:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋