Is this a breach of privacy? rude?
Men do not do it, generally, although an occasional prick will. Well, not to me, anyrate.
2006-10-17 22:25:49 · 36 answers · asked by Perseus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES, women talk about everything to their girlfriends, it is not rude or a breach of privacy. Women find it much easier to talk to each other about very personal issues, and men and sex just happen to a be on a long list of things that are open for discussion. We do not do it to compare notes or score points (as some men might!!!) its usually just a topic to talk about, usually reflecting on things we regret or enjoyed. And usually, if it is one night stand, the identity is very rarely disclosed, even though the whole experience might be re-told detail by detail!!!
So quit worrying, its a girl thing, and doesn't compare to the kind of locker talk that some guys get up to!!!!
2006-10-17 22:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Alia zk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOME women do... some don't. I have certain friends that I never talk to about sex, they're just not comfortable with details.
However, when you find two that are willing... we are much worse than men!!! I know it sounds awful, but my best friend and I give full play-by-plays and have even been known to demonstrate new positions on each other (fully clothes, sorry boys) and get something phallic shaped out with which to do an impression of a guy in action, while the other giggles and shrieks. It all sounds horribly mean, but the truth is we don't ever say bad things about a guy's performance, and we're not taking the piss out of them, we just get all immature and girly and find sex hilarious!
There's girls who talk too much about their sex lives when it's not appropriate, and always make their lovers look bad- but it's so obvious they just say it to impress people with how "experienced" they are, which is lame. Most of us don't do that- if we share gory details it's really for the sake of girly bonding more than anything. Men shouldn't feel too threatened by this, after all, it's in these sessions that we might pick up new ideas!
2006-10-18 00:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by - 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how it would be sexist at all - she doesn't trust her friend OR her husband.... Insecurity is a funny thing - it makes people think irrational thoughts, and the fact that she doesn't trust her husband has little to do with him (unless of course he's acted questionably or given her reason for doubting her). Everyone feels insecure about something at some point in the relationship. Sometimes it's reasonable. Other times it's not. It's something that you have work through, or decide that it is not worth working through.
2016-05-21 22:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A majority of my friends are guys and they do talk about sex and quite crudely I might add. However I have 3 very good female friends and yes we do talk about our sexual encounters to one another, it is a part of the female bonding ritual. Why do you feel that it is a breach of privacy? It isn't rude.
2006-10-18 01:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women do talk to their friends about their partners and casual encounters...it's not a breach of privacy, sometimes its to get advice, other times its just to brag.
Guys do it too...maybe not all guys but some do.
2006-10-17 22:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by th25tina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think some do and some dont, i only do to ma best bud, we tell each other everything and have a good old giggle but none of my boyfriends have ever been like that, there very private and get embarrased talkin to their mates about stuff. But then on the other hand i know lads that have really big mouths and will announce stuff to the pub never mind a couple of mates!
2006-10-17 22:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by foxylovablegal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well truth i do but i dont talk bout what happened with me and the lad i'd just talk bout positions that i have tried and i taught were good and things ive bought that made it more pleasureable and id recommend it. i dont talk bout the personal part just things that would be it really let me no if you think that is rude or an invasion of privacy but some ask me questions bout sex so i kinda help them by doing this
2006-10-17 23:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Blonde_o2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be at peace and imagine it does not happen with your girl, cause there is nothing you can do to stop this. its normal among women to talk with their friends about every bit of their sex lives with their female friends. In short its just one way of teaching and learning from each other on how to make a man happy. 1 + 1 = a healthy relationship for one woman.
2006-10-17 22:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by sweetyp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, normally, men do this (especially in drinking sessions). They call this thing as "kiss and tell". I guess, men do this on girls whom they are not serious with, like fling acquaintance.
Regardless, women sometimes exchange ideas on sex, but not on a vulgar way. It's just like sharing and learning at the same time.
2006-10-17 23:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Orlie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes women do - all women that i have ever met do! Its a way we bond with other women, talking about all our experiences, sexual and otherwise. We talk about ours, his, theirs and people's we don't even know! Don't worry about it. A breach of privacy? Maybe..... rude? not really!
2006-10-17 22:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋