my b/f of 3 weeks , wants his mate to watch us you know, well this i dont mind too much but i am scared he is gonna join in, they just laugh when i ask
2006-10-17 23:50:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok thanks everyone, i guess i knew it, i just needed to hear from someone else...ty xx
2006-10-18 00:01:39 · update #1
If they're actually laughing at you, then they are not showing you any respect right now. If they're not showing you respect BEFORE it happens, then they won't during.
I'd rethink this if I were you. Seriously.
2006-10-17 23:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen K 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How can only after 3 weeks he start asking questions like that. If you deicide to let him watch there is a chance he will join or you run a risk of being raped by him - can you trust him.
Girl just be careful, don't let him put any pressure on you, you have the right to say no
2006-10-18 06:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tabby T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this is all about love and carering of how you feel he shouldnt have told you someone else to watch it should be aspecial moment between you two he might tell you to do strange things which are worse than that if you are not comfortable then get out its only 3 weeks someone out there is ment for you to treat you with all the love and respect you diserve
2006-10-18 07:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend of 3 weeks?, do you really need help with this question. ofcourse he is using you, using you to help get his friend laid. This can't be good for you. End this relationship before you get hurt.
2006-10-18 06:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he wants all this tell him to go pay a woman and you dump him girl. It sounds like he is really immature. Men have piggish dreams. If you don't get anything out of it...don't do it!
2006-10-18 07:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a where you should run for an exit, and reconsider the sort of guy you are dateing. You need to find someone who thinks of you as more than a blow-up-doll.
2006-10-18 06:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ms;
If you need ask then yes, they are using you as a SEX TOY and once they both get you to do what they want they will leave you used and abused. Find someone who cares for you.
2006-10-18 06:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, he is using you to fulfill his and his friend's fantasy. He is also making fun of you when he laughs at your question. Think about it and do not agree if you are not comfortable in his friend joining you.
2006-10-18 06:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by trushka 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh Yes he is using you & his intentions towards you are not honerable. Dump him as quick as possible - like radioactive waste.
Preserve your self respect & dignity.
Good luck & remember you deserve better!
2006-10-18 07:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want a threesome then go for it, but tell your guy and his friend to take a hike! It's not an event you buy tix for.
2006-10-18 07:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋