my boyfriend is working very hard, but the time he's not working he'd rather spend with his friends than me, a week ago he said we should take sex out of our relationship. is there someone else, is he gay, or am i worried bout nothing? is it my body, im a size 10 with a D-cup breasts. he's talking about getting married, but i think he only want a good mother for his daughter of 5. he's 26 and i'm 19. why would he want to take sex out of our relationship? should i be worried?
2006-10-17 23:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa, thats kinda tough. You're only 19. If he doesnt want to have sex, then don't. He wants you to nag and complain and ask "Why?". Just dont give in to it. Let him know you are fine with it but you want to know, where did this idea come from>? Why all of a sudden? Is he practicing celibacy? If so, thats a good thing, if not, don't let him or ANYBODY insult your intelligence and play on your emotions. Ok? But of all things, dont worry. You'll make yourself sick! That's what you have God for :-). Let him fight your battles that you worry about. If you try, you're sure to lose.
2006-10-17 23:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by science rules! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happened to people not having sex so soon in a relationship? It usually causes trouble further down the line in one way or another if you do.
TRY TALKING TO HIM and find out why he wants to change the relationship the two of you have. Be persistant, if he's talking marriage, you have a right to know what's going on in his head. After only seeing someone for three months, do you think you're ready for marriage? At the age of 19, you still have a lot ahead of you to do, see, and explore, do you want to get tied down to one person at such a young age and not see what else is out there for you?
I'd be more worried about myself right now.
2006-10-18 06:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be worried he wants to spend more time with the guys than you as well. As for not having sex, that is a major problem. Every man loves sex and wants it all the time, no matter what. You need to talk to him and ask what has changed and see what you can find out about what is happening with him. He's getting it somewhere...
2006-10-18 06:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we men are from the stone age sometimes ,@ 26 he has passed his sexual peek 18-21 for men 28-32 for women its not that we find sex boring its more like its time to settle down maybe you should do somthing sexy with him and see how that works if your not getting it at least 3 times a week give him the flick.
2006-10-18 06:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by deefksnider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the man for you. He doesn't love you and if he's only with you to make you the mother of his child, that is not good grounds for a relationship. Get out of it before it's too late. Find someone who appreciates you.
2006-10-18 06:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be worried and be gone-- he is looking for a baby sitter for his kids and a wife to cook his meals and keep house while him and his buddies party and if he doesnot want sex he is getting it elsewhere- at 19 you have your life ahead of you and you should live it without raising someone else kids-
2006-10-18 06:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't take sex out of a relationship!!!
he's either dating someone or finally realized it's high time to come out of the closet.
either which way, you're gonna have to deal with it
2006-10-18 06:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nelson M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only worry if you don't want to lose him. He is probably slowly moving in a direction that doesn't include you in his life, but you'll find somebody else, we always do.
2006-10-18 06:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then what else will he do?
Is there some thing in the cup?
Give him, let him drink.
Of course you have got nothing to lose.
2006-10-18 06:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by idsalex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok this is a easy one he is droping hints to that he wanst to break up ok i know you think he dosn't but girl the signs are there i'm sorry
2006-10-18 06:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by pumpkin amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋