does a womans size/weight really bother you? for instance if you met a girl who had everything going for her but was say a size20 would that stop you from chatting her up??
2006-10-17 23:47:02 · 31 answers · asked by delaruedebbie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your shallow enough to go out with people based purely on their looks, then you deserve all you get. Overweight, underweight, it don't matter. If your a nasty sod then I'll move on. Funny women do it for me.
Example: Dawn French! Do I think of her weight when I am rolling around the floor laughing my socks off? No I don't.
I'm not politically correct either, women with a personality are the most sexy!
2006-10-18 00:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi most men and women make there minds up in the first few seconds weather the find some one attractive or not . it is not until you get to know that persons do you find out if you really like them,in answer to your question yes size and wight dose mater in the first place but its short lived if you have a wonder full personalty that will shine through look es alone do not make a person. Any male worth his salt will see through service to the real you and that's the person they would want to be with
2006-10-18 00:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by glen p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats very superficial!
If she had everything going for her then why not chat to her and see what shes like in person. At the end of the day, looks etc will disappear within a few years but the personality and character will be there forever!
Good Phrase -
Marry someone you like to chat to as the looks will disappear much earlier!
2006-10-17 23:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Fun Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon it's all in the eye of the beholder. I personally don't like skinny girls. You should at least have a decent figure, to love and hold. On the other hand, if you're really obese, it would also hinder our time together, because you might not be able to join me on adventures. Personality is a big plus. You could be a super-model contender, but have a dreadful personality; I would definitely not be interested.
2006-10-18 00:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Out of Africa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, definitely not. Wouldn't even be bothered in the slightest. In fact it would be a good thing. I love larger women, I can't explain why, they just seem to do it for me.
It's even better when a woman is proud of her size and is confident with it, knowing that to many men she will be extremely sexy.
2006-10-17 23:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a size 20, most men will not know she has everything going for her as they will not chat her up unless they are into BBW.
2006-10-18 05:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The physical attractiveness of a women is a big deal to guys, in whether to pursue the relationship further.
I've a smaller frame, -so I really don't tolerate women that much bigger than me.
I noticed that I used the word 'tolerate' above,.. I'll relate to them perfectly, -but not consider them as a potential mate.
2006-10-17 23:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by MK6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women over estimate their size all the time. i've known lots of pretty intelligent and bubbly large girls. one thing stopped me from chatting them up, i'm an insufferable bore with all the charm of a corpse. after the 10th knock knock joke they usually walk off shaking their heads.
2006-10-17 23:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their likes and dislikes. And everybody can NEVER be the same.
Be patient as you will definitely get the man that would love you and take you for who you are regardless of size, hair colour, scars, e.t.c.
What matters is LOVE.
2006-10-18 00:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the personality goes a long way.. but you need the initial attraction. there are some cute fat chicks.. and ugly ones.. So it is impossible to generalise.. wanna post a pic and then i can say if i'd chat u up?
2006-10-18 02:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by besidetheseaside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋