Why do girls feel bad when they turn someone down? It's not like they can force themselves to like the person, either they do or they don't.
I showed interest in a girl at a club, I winked and starred at her for the longest time and she didn't even want to look at me. So I walked over to the pub bar to wallow in my sorrow and when i turned around, i saw the girl looking at me all sad. The girl approached me but i think she did it out of pity. Why do girls feel bad for turning someone down?
2006-10-20 22:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called empathy.
2006-10-20 22:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by noirdenat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have thought she felt sad and pity but did she really ,did she turn you down.
2006-10-20 22:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by cooljess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god, you're such a spaz.
did she tell you she wasn't interested?? NO, SHE DIDN"T.
stop thinking, pal, coz you're not very good at it.
for a start, she was letting you admire her.
then she got worried when you went to the bar because she thought you should have talked to her first.
then she came over to find out how come you showed interest then froze up, but you put her off.
2006-10-20 22:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was pity cause she knew she did you wrong
2006-10-20 22:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jo r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuz what comes round goes round and when they get rejected they dont want to be rejected hard so they try to reject someone as hurtless as possible
2006-10-20 22:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm she was looking at you, you just didn't realize it! If she wasn't looking at you,she wouldn't have known you stopped looking at her!
2006-10-20 22:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz women are sympathetic creatures
2006-10-20 22:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by RoobZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is pity.
2006-10-20 22:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so pity.........
2006-10-20 22:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋