i know that almost 99.99 people have already had sex before time..but do u think its really sinful ?
2006-10-20 22:26:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's each person's own personal decision. But, for me, I think it's a good idea to have sex before. You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first......right? And while sex might not be the most important thing in a relationship, it does count. And if a couple just isn't sexually compatible, it puts a very large strain on their relationship. That is why I believe in pre-marital sex. But if you don't, then that's your own thing.
2006-10-20 22:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by devlish_blu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No acts of love are sinful in my book. You test drive a car before you buy it don't you? Why not live together and find out if you can tolerate each other as well. I don't believe in just having sex with just anyone, you have to have a special someone to make it sweeter. It is the ultimate expression of love and I don't believe that there is anything wrong with it. The people that say it's sinful are the ones who have denied themselves from having it. If you deny yourself something long enough, you find ways of getting it illegally, hence the poor altar boys. I don't believe there is anything sinful in expression of love.
2006-10-21 05:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on wheter or not your serious about your religion. Some people don't get deeply involved with religion therefore they aren't aware of what is sinful and what is not.
How do we expect people to wait if they don't know what is in the bible. If I hadn't come across some scriptures in the bible, I would have bought into what society says about sex. Because society glamorizes sex as a fun, innocent, and rewarding activity with no consequences, but they usually leave out the part where there is pain, regret, and shame.
2006-10-21 05:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, that is 100 percent sinfull, a type of vulgarity. This trend will lead to destruction the values of strong family ties. Its animals like behavour, which dont have a moral sense. One should be very clean, honest and pure. To have sex without legal ties results in failure. In my point of view, though many will NOT agree, its very very bad thing. There are cases, where kids dont know who was their father and that was the result of these irresponsible activities.
Some of our friends, give examples of buying a cars etc and are trying to comare this very sacred relation with that of car purchase. But I think the approach is not right, one can sell/ exchage / throw away / dispose of the car after some time or when one dont like that car and wana replace with a new model. Is it logical to treat marraige with this cheap type of hobby. This trend will lead the society to which destination? What about the next generation? Frustration, sadness, depression and pscy related problems can be due to this trend.
2006-10-21 05:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am against sex before marriage becasue the Bible clearly states that sex before marriage is a sin.
2006-10-21 08:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am all for sex before marriage...especially if you are living together and in a committed relationship. As Gabriel said on Desperate Housewives "You wouldn't buy a car without test-driving it first!"
2006-10-21 13:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it sinful? Not in my book but then again there's a lot to be said about the responsibility of two consenting people having unprotected sex.
2006-10-21 05:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay people. The bible was written by man and re written by a king of England and the church. Find where it says no sex before married.
Does it say married wife or just wife.
Anyways sex before marriage is up to the couple. None of us should be the judge. They have to answer to God not you or I.
2006-10-21 05:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex before marriage is fornication which is a sin according to the bible.
2006-10-21 06:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by single mami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sinful? If you do adultery, yes it is very sinful. I strongly recommend you never do adultery. But having casual sex among singles is perfectly OK.
2006-10-21 06:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋