if your kinda casually dating a guy, and you've called him the last 3 times, and on the last call he said to call him to go for coffee sometime, should i really bother calling him again?...i mean if he was really interested wouldnt he call me instead of always waiting for me to call him....hes not a boy, hes in his late twenties, and he's def not shy or anything. Just dont want to feel like i have to chase him, but who knows if he'll ever get around to calling me.
2006-10-20 22:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by ash1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not ever chase a man. It's OK to show interest' Just not to much. If he doesn't call don't worry about it. If he is interested he will call. It is a turnoff to most guys if a girl calls them. After you have been in a relationship for a while where you know that there is a commitment then it's OK. But not at the start.
2006-10-20 22:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's the thing about men, or most anyway. Guys keep their options open and I bet while he is casually dating with you there are girls that he is "more" than casually dating. Therefore he makes time for you only when he knows that he has nothing going on with someone else. He either doesn't call you because you always seem to call him first or he keeps you down on his list because coffee is always just coffee with you.
2006-10-20 22:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait for him to call you. Guys sometimes get intimiated when girls call them all the time. If he really wants to go out for coffee let him ask you. Let him call you and officially ask you out.l Sometimes it will help boost their self esteem to the point they feel more masculine that they have control of the situation.
2006-10-20 22:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont chase him too much, in our fantasy we love the idea of being chased by a girl but in reality we are the hunter !
2006-10-20 22:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by djrizki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks youre busy and dont have time so he wants you to find a schedule that suits you... tell him you can do almost any time and that better if he calls you when he has time...tell him youll forget and if hes really interested hell remember
2006-10-20 22:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can ask him to call you.I call that a relationship if he will not call you can go find someone else
2006-10-20 22:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest give it a last shot...
after the coffee, still if he never calls u
dont bother to call him
gud luck
2006-10-20 23:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by daksh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait and let him call u if he doesnt call him and jokingly say what is ur problem i have been waiting for u to call
2006-10-20 22:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Tblacklegacy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him call you --- he knows where you are
i would also start looking around
2006-10-20 22:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes find a new one
2006-10-20 22:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋