Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

i'm not having a problem meeting girls and talking, i can make them laugh and what not, but every friggen time i find a girl that i like, it turns out she has a boyfriend already, IM ALMOST READY TO FORGET ABOUT THE BOYFRIEND THING AND MAKE A MOVE, am i doing the right thing?

this has happened to me about 9-10 times no joke, so i am getting really annoyed. im also having a hard time hanging out with girls that already have boyfriends, i find it awkward to call them and everything.

as you can see i have issues, what do u guys think i should do, should i hang out with them anyway?

2006-10-20 19:00:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex brother keeps asking me out and he said if i dont go out with him he's hurt me and i can't tell his brother cause his brother dont live here anymore. plus his brother was horrible 2 me when i was with him 2 he was very abouse me bably he hurt me and then left. He came 2 visit and his brother was watching us his brother dont want me looking at anyone but him and he's controling what should i do and he yalls at me when i fight with other people please help what doe's this all mean ? He says he wants 2 be just like his brother.

2006-10-20 18:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The thing is i have had this crush for over 2 yrs now i think about it.
The thing is that i never really noticed it till this year and this year is grade 12 for me and her too. So at the beginning i was thinking of asking her out to the grad dance.

HOWEVER..the problem is im afraid.
You see...im not really muscluar or a good talker
I get really nervous talking to girls..

Also im not sure if she like me or not..we are just ok friends like chat about stuff here and there.
Im afraid she has no feeling for me and ill make a fool of myself.

Recently, i was like the heck... so i made some changes to MSN saying how i love some girl and stuff like that

I dont know if this is the right thing to do..
im afriad...

Can anyone help me?

During this year its like almost everyday i keep thinking about her <_<

2006-10-20 18:58:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-20 18:58:11 · 3 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 18:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by shlomogon 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 18:57:56 · 6 answers · asked by ostrich 78 1 in Singles & Dating

I get a lot of numbers and attention from guys. I like guys but I'm trying to get with a girl. How can I get a girls attetion and get her to go out with me?

2006-10-20 18:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know guys have to sit on a toilet a certain way but why does my husband complain about the way I sit on our toilet? You sit, do your business, then flush...right? He says I get the toilet dirty because I sit back too far and I'm not doing it right! Good Grief!! How hard is it for an adult to use the toilet? Does any other gal out there have this same problem with their husbands?
Thanks!

2006-10-20 18:56:08 · 11 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Friends

I have known this girl for a very long time throughout my years of school. In this last year i have noticed alot of things that make me think she likes me. i really like her.
for example...if im starring at her and she notices then i look quickly away. ALSO if she is starring at me then i look at her we both turn quickly away. I talk to her now more than ever and she talks to me alot. could this be a sign that she likes me bak? i really do like her and find myself thinking about her alot. could anyone tell me what i should do? i know i will see her everywhere for at least the next 3 years. i would love it if we could become more than just good friends but i don't know how i should approch talking to her and it could really help to know what others think is going on or what i should do about it. thanks alot everyone

2006-10-20 18:53:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hope that I do enough with my girls. We go to the park, we go for walks, we dance, we play in the backyard, etc. I felt guilty the other day when I sat down to read a magazine (for the first time in almost 3 years, honestly) and the girls were at my feet in seconds demanding my attention. Is it okay to occasionally do my own thing or am I supposed to be involved with them whenever they are awake?

2006-10-20 18:53:29 · 16 answers · asked by Mommy 3 in Family

what is the best surprise your wife ever gave you? (If you're a wife you can clue me in to your great ideas as well!)

2006-10-20 18:51:02 · 14 answers · asked by yakimablueyes 6 in Marriage & Divorce

can somebody please tell me?

2006-10-20 18:46:40 · 34 answers · asked by LuNis 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 18:46:08 · 20 answers · asked by amy 3 in Family

My Ex husband and I areback in court (after 2 years) because of child support/custody..I have had the kids for two years, he rarely visits, but he does pay the measley $400 month, when he is supposed to be paying $1750 according to State standards. Cananyone help me with this?

2006-10-20 18:46:07 · 4 answers · asked by heandI 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i hate to intrude in other's buissness, but my friend has been single for, well, a long time. (coulple years) i really want to set her up, but i don't know anyone who will. it's not like i'm forcing her though, she really wants to date. help me help me friend. Please!!!

2006-10-20 18:45:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 18:44:12 · 5 answers · asked by zxrylle 1 in Singles & Dating

I care for this person, but she gives me tough love by ignoring me and not talking to me, I think it's just to let me go out and be cool on my own without her. I lied saying that I stay with some other girl which is the only lie among the truth about the rest of me, I think I just say it to make me go along without her and make her really leave me alone thinking i'm doing ok. Cool or no??

2006-10-20 18:44:02 · 21 answers · asked by TinyLOKSTER 2 in Friends

2006-10-20 18:43:52 · 23 answers · asked by Emma K 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of nearly 7 1/2 yrs...and also gave me a ring, but never pursued with the intention of it from 2 yrs ago. The ring issue has caused strains. But he should have never given a ring without it opening up a new level for the relationship. We are struggling right now..I love him so much and thought he did me with the world...a petty matter happened a couple months ago and now he is shutting me out and will not say he loves me back. He does this when he gets angry/upset/or things not his way. He is a pretty good situation with me and I give in a lot...When I ask what he wants or if he still loves me...he says not sure..How can a switch just be turned off like that...a couple friends say he is going through Mid life crisis. I'm not trying to give altimadums...but 2.5 months...this is ripping me apart and hurts to not get the words and affection reciprocated...but yet he still pushes the intimacy,but it's a little less affectionate in ways..How should I handle this?????

2006-10-20 18:43:32 · 9 answers · asked by SMILEYGIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 18:42:53 · 8 answers · asked by foreplayman 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my b/f have been together for almost 2 years. he gets made at me for nothing all the time. he don't want nothing to do with me barely anymore. he don't say i love you anymore, it's like pulling teeth for him to help me with both boys of ours and for him to say i love you.

2006-10-20 18:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by angel_boo_2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

share with us your experiences with dates

2006-10-20 18:42:08 · 20 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 18:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by sue 1 2 in Singles & Dating

because she had 3 kids and was married. ( she was 31and he was 23 at the time ( last year).Anyway, they are always talking on the phone ,sending emails, text messages and so on.he goes to her house and they hang out. Most of the time, he doesn't tell me that he is going to her house( he says that ,that way, I don't get mad at him. which would be true) He swears to me that he isn't cheating on me. One time I say them come in to his appartment at 4 in the morning. he told me that she had to u se the bathroom.He swears nothing happened. Another time , I found her at his house when I came over to surprise him. they were about to watch a movie. He tells me that she accepted the fact that he is with me but I feel she is trying to take him. One time, he sent her text message saying that he wanted 2 see her.She calls him sexy, I tell him all of this and he swears that he isn't cheating. He claims that he loves me, what should I do, is he telling me the truth??

2006-10-20 18:41:39 · 10 answers · asked by natasha m 2 in Singles & Dating

is any1 feeling alone and would like some company if any1 needs some.

2006-10-20 18:41:31 · 12 answers · asked by Tay 1 in Friends

im going out with this guy who i am just falling in love with, But you know it seems like everytime we run in to this gay black guy my boyfriend just forget's all about me. My boyfriend told me there's this black guy in our school who is gay and my boyfriend all ways talks about him he tells me that the guy stairs,stalks,and is in love with him. My boyfriend in him always look at either like there's something there. When we first started going out he told me about that guy and we were walking together in the hall 1 day and he was behind us and my man said there he is tell me if he's looking at me and i said yes and my boyfriend got happy. My boyfriend and that guy always stair at one another. yesterday we were walking and that guy said hi 2 my man and my boyfriend looked at him and smile and my boyfriend acted like i wasn't there. finally today that guy was holding hands with a girl i was like finally baby now he can leave us alone and my man got mad. He Never pays me attention.

2006-10-20 18:40:46 · 7 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its been a long strange year and i want to celebrate my birthday and move toward a new year that brings hope and good things.
I think my bday would be a great way to open up a new chapter.
Love to hear your ideas on how to have a great day...

2006-10-20 18:40:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-20 18:40:29 · 9 answers · asked by monalisa t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY OLD BEST FRIEND JESSICKA SHE IS 15 SHE JUST HAD HER BABY LIKE 30 MINS AGO HER BOYFRIEND JUST CALLED ME OMG THATS CRAZY ID DIDNT EVEN KNOW SHE WAS PREGNET SHE NAMED HER BABY ADRIANNA
AFTER MY MIDDLE NAME I THINK THAT IS SO KOOL THO!
BUT I WANNA GO TO THE HOSPITAL TO GO SEE THE BABY BUT I HAVENT TALKED TO HER SICE LIKE LAST YEAR DO U THINK I SHOULD GO OR WILL I LOOK STUPIED GOING???

2006-10-20 18:40:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband told me that he never admitts to anything even if what he is being questioned about is true, he will deny it to the end. how am i suspose to take that? does that not mean that all the times i asked him if he had done something and he denyed it, wouldnt that make you think that he lied about that and what i thought he had done he probably did do? and what about the future, does that mean he will lie about everything if he gets caught? how do you trust someone who is capible of that?

2006-10-20 18:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by jtyt4225 1 in Other - Family & Relationships