my husband told me that he never admitts to anything even if what he is being questioned about is true, he will deny it to the end. how am i suspose to take that? does that not mean that all the times i asked him if he had done something and he denyed it, wouldnt that make you think that he lied about that and what i thought he had done he probably did do? and what about the future, does that mean he will lie about everything if he gets caught? how do you trust someone who is capible of that?
2006-10-20 18:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by jtyt4225 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U have to know the lie clues. Someone lying always has the same sign everytime, like a smirky smile! Or grab their facial hair and comb it with fingers--like thinking. Read some of Lieberman's books for better clues.
I found the smirky smile is the most common of the liar--the liar wants to laugh when confronted, and try to conceal the laugh.
2006-10-20 18:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, welcome to my world. Sounds like my husbands philosphy of life! I've never been able to trust him at all, and at any time.
Don't be stupid like me and stick it out, hoping that you can change him. I did that and I'm just about out of my mind at this point. Will I leave? Absolutely. But he has taken my soul and left me a shell of a person...please, please get out while you can.
There is no way that you can have a lasting relationship with a person who is so selfish that they would lie about virtually everything rather than "get caught".
My husband lies about even the smallest of things. I could say "Oh, are you in the kitchen" and he will say "NO", then I go downstairs within the next 3 seconds, and there he is in the kitchen. Now, why would he lie about something so incredibly stupid as that?? Because he has a problem, as does your husband. It will get to the point that you won't even be able to have a normal conversation with him and you will constantly be on edge from asking the same questions over and over just in the hopes of getting a truthful answer.
I can't stress to you how horrible this kind of life is. I pray you have the courage to do what you need to do and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-20 18:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in simple terms as housewives lose interest and characteristic affairs, so do stay@living house husbands. The coochie exchange into handy for him...top around the corner. What selection do you have? a million) settle for it, forgive him, and pass on 2) enable him have affairs 3) pass away him those are your options. What sucks is in view which you're head of kin and fully help your husband, in case you divorce him threat is you will might desire to pay him alimony. Ouch!
2016-10-15 06:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know that you can. He just came out and told you that your will never know if hes lying or telling the truth. Its really selfish that he would tell you that and that he feels that this is OK behavior. How old is he 3? You may just have to see how things go for a while before making any long term decisions. hope things work out.
2006-10-20 18:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Wanna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks. Seriously. All I can say is at least he is admitting this to you now. My EX-wife wouldn't she just keep denying even when I DID know the truth and would insist that she was right and try to spin it. I'm sorry, good luck
2006-10-20 18:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by skee2di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have hooked up with a pathological liar. Every thing he says is suspect. So if you think he did something you can't live with, get your sources straight and confront him. If he lies dumb his ***, because he can't be trusted.
2006-10-20 18:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't tell you the truth or you can't believe him try counseling if that doesn't work you ether have to put up with it or get a divorce.
2006-10-20 19:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Preacher's Daughter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has something to hide. I would not be involved with someone who said that. You couldn't trust someone like that.
2006-10-20 18:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like his way thank you for free lesson.
Never go back and judge the past because is past.
2006-10-20 18:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... for someone like that, i usually give them their own venom bite back (sometimes the cure for a venom, is in the venom itself). why not try his own method out on him, and try to plan it out to make it look momentous!
2006-10-20 18:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by hey h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋