can somebody please tell me?
2006-10-20 18:46:40 · 34 answers · asked by LuNis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men do. But, I think for more men than women, sex can be less emotional. I feel this is biological. Women only can get pregnant a couple of days a month. Men produce enought semen every 24 hours to get a woman pregnant. This insured survival of our species because men always wanted to have sex and thus the chances of a woman getting pregnant was greater.
On the other hand, women had to raise the offspring, so she is more selective of who she has sex with so that the young has the best chance of survival, both gentically speaking and as the father being a provider for them. So women have allot more at stake than men when it comes to sex.
7 million years of genetic coding can not just be turned-off because today's society says it should. It's still there.
But, on the flip-side, there are many women who very effectively seperate love from sex. Not every woman has to have feelings for a man to have sex with him, just like not all men are not emotionless sex machines. There is a balance. Everyone is different, and there is no one way that's right or wrong, just different.
2006-10-20 18:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a loaded question.
Men can and do associate emotions and sex. That said, they can also separate the two. Depends of the partner and the emotional attachment that men have to them.
When expressing love through close intimate sexual contact all of the being is involved in the act, body, spirit and mind (that would include emotion). Conversely, the act of sex can be looked at as a mechanical physical act devoid of emotion, something to satisfy the carnal lust only.
So to answer you question, men are capable, when they choose to, associate emotion with sex, but, as a sex as a physical release to satisfy a carnal lust, no attachment there, after all it is just sex.
2006-10-20 18:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by mhp_wizo_93_418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are biologically different animals. There are men who do associate sex and emotion, Men are no more all the same as each other than women are like every other woman. Keep an open mind- they are out there.
2006-10-20 18:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by skyflyer1021 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The key word here is "SEX". There is a difference between having sex and making love. Men can have sex with a woman there not in love with and feel no emotional obligation, sorry about your luck.
2006-10-20 19:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good part of it is that men are capable of loving women, and it doesn't have to be associated with sex...and really it shouldn't be, if you think long and hard about it.
Sex is something different and it has to do with an animal magnetism, creating an urgent physical drive. It needs to be practiced in marriage though, only.
2006-10-20 18:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that a trick question??? sex is emotion!! Atleast to me it is. I am at my most rawest emotional state when I've been with past girlfriends. Most have loved and some have been intimidated because I'm so into them and they think I'm into the sex. Some women can't fathom that a guy can be so into them that they make excuses like "sex addict" or "cheater" because I'm well versed at pleasing my partner. I have to deal with all of the fallacies that insecure and jealous women come up with. Oh well, she's out there and she'll find me sooner then I think.
2006-10-20 18:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can read up on this...
but actually most men DO associate emotions with sex .. even when they try not to or try to seem like they are not.
we often are taught that hardcore sex is good enough .. and that is often tried to be void of love.
but indeed sex and love are different .. often mixed to gether but are different .. and therefore CAN, but probably should not be seperated.
Something must be wrong with your relationship to ask this question. Men often have trouble expressing feelings. And of course you might be being used .. only you can ferrit this out.
2006-10-20 18:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men don't usually do it for the emotions but more for the pleasure and relaxation.As a woman would think of it as a sensual moment and man looks at it as oh boy sex yay.
2006-10-20 18:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some can, but I believe the actual reason is that in nature, a male's only purpose is to impregnate females. Females probably have more emotions because they actually have to take care of the babies that are born (breastfeeding, warmth, etc.) and without emotions, they would just abandon their offspring, and the species would decline. I'm not really an expert but that's just what I think.
2006-10-20 18:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really? My husband's doing a fine job of showing his emotions during sex so I guess u just picked a bad apple.
2006-10-20 19:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋