because she had 3 kids and was married. ( she was 31and he was 23 at the time ( last year).Anyway, they are always talking on the phone ,sending emails, text messages and so on.he goes to her house and they hang out. Most of the time, he doesn't tell me that he is going to her house( he says that ,that way, I don't get mad at him. which would be true) He swears to me that he isn't cheating on me. One time I say them come in to his appartment at 4 in the morning. he told me that she had to u se the bathroom.He swears nothing happened. Another time , I found her at his house when I came over to surprise him. they were about to watch a movie. He tells me that she accepted the fact that he is with me but I feel she is trying to take him. One time, he sent her text message saying that he wanted 2 see her.She calls him sexy, I tell him all of this and he swears that he isn't cheating. He claims that he loves me, what should I do, is he telling me the truth??
2006-10-20 18:41:39 · 10 answers · asked by natasha m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE CHEATING ON YOU. AND YOU NEED TO LET HIM KNOW
THAT YOU DONT APPRECIATE THIS. IF HE IS NOT WITH
THIS WOMEN THAT HAS KIDS. THEN WHY IS HE SPEND
HIS TIME WITH HER. THE FACT THAT HE LYING TO YOU
IS A SOMETHING THAT WOULD NOT BE GOOD WITH ME.
AND YOU NEED TO CONFRONT HIM.
2006-10-20 18:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you for how long have you been dating this guy? Why do they talk about on the phone anyways? He claims that he loves you right, but why does he have to text, call and see this other woman, there is something strange going on. Why were they coming to the appartment at that time anyways?
Open you eyes cuz they are cheating on you, dont trust him cuz none of 'em are being honest with u. They are trying to fool you, instead be more inteligent than these two poeple.
2006-10-21 02:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, either they are really good friends. Like me and my friend we do stuff like that all the time and his girl friend was my best friend and she learned to accept that and use me as an advantage. But obbviously dont be stupid you know deep inside if he is cheeting or not, just listen to the voice in your head instead of your heart! Also to look further into it talk to his friend and see if something is up, tell her that if they like eachother and are doing stuff just to tell you so you can let them be. Then tell your boyfriend and see what he says you might find that if suprises you what he says!
2006-10-21 01:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's spending as much time as you say he is, he's just trying to have his cake and eat it too. He sounds like a person with comittment issues. Turn the tables and ask yourself, "What message would I get if he was dating this other girl and he did all this stuff with me?" There-in thou shalt find thou's answer.
2006-10-21 01:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by X M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I would trust either of them. If you're not sure, then do a little undercover work. Spy on them, but only if you think you should. If it doesn't feel right to you then don't do it. But it might be the only way to really find out.
2006-10-21 01:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so where is the woman's husband? are they divorce or something?she do spend alot of time with your bf.nothing may happen between them but sex could right?they could be casual sex partners.i suggest you get out of the relationship.u dont hv to explain to your bf anything.u definitely wouldnt want to share ur man with another woman.men dont respond to words...they respond to no contact
2006-10-21 01:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust him. Obviously something else is goin on. Dont let them make a fool out of u
2006-10-21 01:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by Paige R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one,
WAKE UP. You're suppose to be the women in his
life. Three kids, this sounds like a booty call.
I would tell him, "It's Me, or Her, decide now".
If he won't, or says he can't, it would be over.
You deserve to be "THE ONE AND ONLY ONE".
2006-10-21 01:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds to me like he's a got an older woman who isn't getting much and he's using her for a booty call...or a friend with benefits.........dump him............
2006-10-21 01:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lori1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL you what the sex must of been good.ID leave them a lone.MOVE on. YOUR too good for them.
2006-10-21 01:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋