i hate to intrude in other's buissness, but my friend has been single for, well, a long time. (coulple years) i really want to set her up, but i don't know anyone who will. it's not like i'm forcing her though, she really wants to date. help me help me friend. Please!!!
2006-10-20 18:45:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thing is, she might be more reserved like me. Sure I'm talkitive, outgoing, outspoken, and a pretty nice guy, but I already have my love life planned out. I'm not dating til I'm a senior, and I want to marry when I'm 27 or 28 so that I get to the top of my game with my career first. Oh, and I'm definitley not having premarital sex. The single life is not that bad. Of course its not good to stay single forever, but just know that marriage has alot of responsibility along with joy that comes with it.
P.S. When you find a hook up, make sure its a guy who isn't in it for the money, beauty, or sex. Has to be a good man with a great personality, and a good humor. Got it? I'm not just going to pick any girl when I start dating. In fact, if I don't find the girl who fits me, I might just die a virgin lol. Some girls are already coming after me. It's kinda scary. I'm not like most guys. I'd rather have one girl in her right mind who wear glasses, braces, and the whole shebang, than a hundred girls swooning and screaming for me. Good Luck! God Bless!
2006-10-20 18:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first question is how attractive is she?... If she isn't really then your going to have a hard time setting her up and ultimatly it's gonna make her feel like crap if she keeps getting rejected. However if she is reasonably attractive then you don't necessarly need to "set her up" as much as you should be going out with her and putting her in positions to meet guys on her own. Go to parties, bars if your of age, and just meet some guys. Oh and what you gotta do is when you meet these guys make sure you tell them that your not single so they focus on her.
2006-10-21 01:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force anything on Your Friend!
Especially a Blind Date!
Maybe you should accompanying her out on Social Events where she can get some Exposure!
Let things happen naturally-They are Far more successful than Forced Liaisons!
You mean well,but try to create Opportunities for your friend!
2006-10-21 01:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make it casual. Hook her up casually. Let a guy you guys know and are just casually hangin with make the move. Just ive her a good variety so she can pick a guy she likes and see what she likes too. Good friends hook each other up, sounds like your a real friend. Just bring her round a variety of guys when yall hang Guys know how to make the move, she will eventually see one she likes if you hang with her enough and she will sucuumb. Oh, Im a female but I can help too. Women as u know have brains Im just older
2006-10-21 01:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by C T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-21 01:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a nice bar if the two of you drink. or a nice country dance. She'll get noticed.There also is nothing wrong with the local personel sites where she can meet people in her own town. Yahoo can place her with people in her own community or sourounding area.
She can meet people in church, and singles meeting places like singles dances.(most cities now have them.
2006-10-21 01:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she make herself available for men to see her? Does she really want to date or is she holding on to something in the past that prevents her from moving on??? How does she feel about herself?? Maybe she's afraid from getting hurt again?? Help her release the pain and move on and she will be ready to date again....
2006-10-21 01:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can help her only if you know someone of her type and if he's single too, set em up and leave the rest to themselves. If they agree, I bless you for creating love and if they dont, well you do know others also, do you!
2006-10-21 01:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by vishal_willpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-21 01:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-21 02:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by akutlusoy62@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋