share with us your experiences with dates
2006-10-20 18:42:08 · 20 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not just crazy, its very irresponsible.
2006-10-20 18:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can pretty much figure if they are having sex with you on the first date, they have had sex with everyone else on the first date. What makes you so "special?" Magic? I don't think so..If a couple doesn't take the time to become friends first, and they let sex come into play right off the bat, it opens doors, that shouldn't be looked into until they have gotten to know each others likes or dislikes at least. Think about it, how many relationships last, if your not friends first? They usually don't...
2006-10-21 02:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are sure you dont want that first date to grow into a lasting friendship or relationship, then go ahead and have sex on the first date.If you are that hot to get into bed with practically a stranger, your date will assume you jump into bed with everyone you date. That assumption causes him or her not to take you seriously. Youll be thought of and called upon only for sex and not much else. Do you understand the word EASY? You dont want to be easy, not on the first (or second ) date. Playing alittle hard to get is always inticing. Nobody wants someone whose been with everybody. Well maybe for a quickie...and not much else. Dont be desperate, or too anxious. Men get turned off by these attitudes.
2006-10-21 02:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- In fact it is smart. As long as you use the proper precautions. What is dating, but a searching process? If sexual compatibility is important to you, then it is something you should explore early on in a relationship- taking into account that sexual experiences between any two people will tend to change over time as they begin to get to know each other's likes/ dislikes.
2006-10-21 01:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by skyflyer1021 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Why would you want to do that. I personally think you should wait till marriage because of diseases and also God tells us to. If you do sleep with a person on a first date you are going to be known as easy or a whore. If you really want love do not give of your body let your partner love you for who you are not lust after your genitals. This is not really love and is definitely not respectful of you or your partners body and future spouses property.
2006-10-21 01:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a lot of people it is okay. They like the thrill of jumping in bed with someone they barely know that well. I personally think that it is not a good idea because you are not that invested in the relationship and you would just be giving yourself away to someone who may not deserve to know you that intimately.
Sex is best enjoyed with someone you know better. Someone you are sure is STD and germ free!
2006-10-21 01:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sirena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will end up being hurt and then realize that person only used u as a booty call...it will make u feel so low and like u dont deserve to be loved cauz sex is what your only good for......been there and cried everyday for the last year, very bad n hurtful experience cauz i really did lov him
2006-10-21 01:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is crazy, i wouldn't consider doing that on the first date, and if the guy wanted to i'd just leave and never see him again.
it tells that you do not respect the peson and do not care much about that person. and also i think it is calles a one night stand.
2006-10-21 01:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. You want to build your reputation as being an easy little sleeze and guys will love you for it. Don't be shy either. Go all the way on your first date. i.e let him penetrate you raw and in both holes. Bonus reputation points.
P.s. If you want to build your reputation to the max..... try to tongue his balls while deep throating.
2006-10-21 02:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by geestrangunit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is all up to you. Just be careful. We don't want to be held responsible for what you catch...."I asked Yahoo answers and they told me to do it."
I'm just kidding! Be safe. If you have second thoughts, maybe that should tell you something.
2006-10-21 01:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by phucked_up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes do you just have sex with everyone you go out with. Sex should be something special
2006-10-21 01:44:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋