The thing is i have had this crush for over 2 yrs now i think about it.
The thing is that i never really noticed it till this year and this year is grade 12 for me and her too. So at the beginning i was thinking of asking her out to the grad dance.
HOWEVER..the problem is im afraid.
You see...im not really muscluar or a good talker
I get really nervous talking to girls..
Also im not sure if she like me or not..we are just ok friends like chat about stuff here and there.
Im afraid she has no feeling for me and ill make a fool of myself.
Recently, i was like the heck... so i made some changes to MSN saying how i love some girl and stuff like that
I dont know if this is the right thing to do..
im afriad...
Can anyone help me?
During this year its like almost everyday i keep thinking about her <_<
2006-10-20 18:58:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her to go to a movie SHE might like, or to go out for a picnic, a walk, hike or bike ride, bowling, ice skating, roller skating, an amusement park (they're getting expensive, though), a museum, look in the entertainment pages or supplement of your newspaper, it can be cheap, it can be free, it can be ANYTHING but don't wait for a special event like this grad dance. You like her NOW so ask her to go do something with you NOW. Or soon. Offer to take her for an ice cream. Absolutely anything. I wish that when I was your age someone had beat it into me that even if the girl didn't like me that much, it's a rare girl that won't at least get a thrill out of the fact that a guy wants to pay attention to her. Do it to please HER. Do it for the millions of us that were in your shoes once and blew it by not asking. JUST DO IT!!! And remember that humor is a great ally, especially self deprecating humor. Not humor at the expense of others. But if you are TRYING to pay attention to her and are stumbling all over yourself, she will notice and not only overlook a whole lot but think you are charming and sweet besides! That's how things work. She has as little control over her feelings as you do over yours.
2006-10-21 02:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you really like this girl... you should be confident about yourself and ask her out. You said you guys are 'ok' friends... if she doesn't feel the same... you guys can still be friends! Girls don't think it's cool for a girl to ask a guy out.... so make the first move!
2006-10-21 02:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by wera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should right down what you u want to say on paper and either hand it to her or have one of your friends give it to her its worth the try since you might not get the chance to do it in the future
2006-10-21 02:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by plantlady159 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out because if you don't you'll still think about her. If she rejects you then at least you can move on with your life
2006-10-21 02:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u a man or a girl?? ask her about it ask her do u like me??
man y r u so shy...??
2006-10-21 05:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋