Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

We dated for two years and talked about marriage. We saw each other every day and I thought we were best friends. He told me every day that I was the only girl for him, that he loved me all of his heart, and that he would never leave me. He dumped me over the phone while he was on vacation in a 20 min. conversation. He said he would call me when he got back home. It has been 2 months and I know he is home, he still has not contacted me. I am smart, very attractive, nice, and loving. I treated him and his family very well. I did everything I could to make him happy. I just do not understand. How can someone do that to another person? I am not perfect but I do know that I did not deserve to be treated this way. Should I try to contact him to get closure? Am I crazy to still be depressed about this guy? I try to let it go and forget, but I can't. There are so many questions in my head about what went wrong. I feel so rejected and confused. Help me!

2006-10-22 23:58:30 · 8 answers · asked by tanglo02 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

whats the first thing that grabs your attention....thanks guys x

oh and be honest!!

2006-10-22 23:58:02 · 20 answers · asked by dizzymooo 4 in Singles & Dating

i asked a question before, but in txt form. how comes guys don't like reading txt forms? its hard for me to write in full like it is now lol i know im a student, and when i start typing my work it would be really hard :S so who prefers txt form? who doesn't...?

2006-10-22 23:56:38 · 36 answers · asked by queen_sadz 2 in Friends

i like this guy. but i cant find words to express how i feel about him. he knows i have these feelings for him but so far he hasnt responded in any way except to flist with me. but im not sure if he realy likes me that way. i really really wanna kiss him. not like, french kiss or anything, just a peck to sho him how i feel. should i do it? if so, how? how the hell do you kiss anyone?? ive never done it before and i dont wanna scare him away!

2006-10-22 23:56:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 23:55:09 · 23 answers · asked by Red E OR NOT 1 in Singles & Dating

I've seen himthis morning. he is the manager of the institue that i used to go for some education for university. i feel that i love him. is this just a short feeling?

2006-10-22 23:53:28 · 12 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Singles & Dating

One day when the teacher was out a sub teacher came in and gave out to her. She is now petrified that her teacher will not come in and insists on us waiting until the teacher arrives. This has lead to tears at bedtime....please help!

2006-10-22 23:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by Gringoman 2 in Family

Me and my boyfriend make love more or less everytime he comes round or i go to his, but couple days ago i didnt feel like it and now he wont stop moaning about it.

2006-10-22 23:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by G F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 23:45:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents split a year ago, but my father was really abusive to my mom and Severly abusive (emotionaly) to me. Yet somehow I still really miss him- anyone got a clue about what I should do?????

2006-10-22 23:45:22 · 11 answers · asked by Mindy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well, this guy that i like...i sent my first message y'day evening...a short on-liner wishing him for the tests...for which he responded in a similar way almost 5 hrs later... in the nite. I think I got too excited and messaged him back a goodnite an hr later for which he did not respond......i didnt see him at school today..and not really sure wats going on.....i know he likes me...but also i know he has a galfriend.....pplz help...

2006-10-22 23:44:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 23:44:31 · 21 answers · asked by Cool gal 2 in Singles & Dating

my last question was deleted so I didnt read all your answers why do some of you skip the play and jump right to the bang.

2006-10-22 23:43:27 · 17 answers · asked by Red E OR NOT 1 in Singles & Dating

im 25.i ve broken up with my 18 year old boyfriend 1 week ago cause we ve been having problems cause his friends were saying things behind my back and influenced him,when he said he was sorry he listened to them it was too late i was too upset.then he got upset too and didnt want to talk and things ended.plus i accused him of cheating although i kind of knew he didnt. i saw him last night we went to the same club and both got drunk. he didnt talked to me although he talked to my girlfriends. when we left he was yelling on the street that he loves me but then nothing.he didnt call or anything.i believe he wants me and i want him but after saying all the things i did and promising never to contact him again what can i do to get back together? one of his friends told me that night that my ex boy never cheated and asked if i want him and i said yes . so for sure he told my ex now that i said i still want him.why hasnt he called then?please help

2006-10-22 23:42:55 · 3 answers · asked by dimitrakavoukopoulou 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend has started drinking and iv told her i dnt think she should bt i think she dus it coz she thinks it kl please can u help me out i want to tell her sumin dat will make her stop

2006-10-22 23:40:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-22 23:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by ##spyker## 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

should I worry or is he just being funny?

2006-10-22 23:38:35 · 19 answers · asked by Red E OR NOT 1 in Singles & Dating

this yr. But she stayed there4 at least 2 mths till she die. I wanted to return back some injections instead of disposing them and at the same time meet her doc and the nurses, thanking them..Now that time is approaching i'm nt sure like some apprehension. Her death was hard 4 me. cudn't accept it. Instead of thinking her dead, i try to think she's still in the hosp. Now going back to the hosp and nt seeing her there. Shud i go now or wait.

2006-10-22 23:37:35 · 23 answers · asked by Saphire 3 in Family

2006-10-22 23:37:06 · 9 answers · asked by jdfunsize 1 in Singles & Dating

bsides havana nights n step up. tq

2006-10-22 23:35:33 · 4 answers · asked by zxcv 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is one guy in my class. i like him.i think he also likes me bcoz he always stares at me and try to talk with me but once i asked his friend about his girl friend he told me that he is having an affaire.should i stop liking him????

2006-10-22 23:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by veby_04 1 in Friends

i gave a gal my phone number 2months ago when i was at work, i was too busy to take hers and had to give her mine. she called last night. i already had forgoten aBOUT her. i wonder why after so long? has she broken up with her Bfriend and despaRATE OR "genuinly" interested? i agreed to go on a date sum time dis week.

2006-10-22 23:34:38 · 24 answers · asked by kau la poo 2 in Singles & Dating

a few weeks ago i asked on here who to chose between giz and james now that i have picked giz over james jame sand i are still pretty close but james wont take no for an answer wheat do i do? and giz is very angry that james is still wanting us to see each other even tho am with gizhelp?

2006-10-22 23:32:36 · 8 answers · asked by victoria h 1 in Singles & Dating

Would they behave differently towards you?

Would using your name in a txt be a sign?

2006-10-22 23:31:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

At University theres this girl im friends with and also like, she will often grab my arm when we are talking or make physical contact of some kind

I dont have this connection with any other girls, and have never seen her do it to anyone else

Thing is she has a boyfriend, but weve had the attraction/flirting between us for 8 months

Does this mean anything, or is it just my mind telling me it is?

Do girls around 18/20 only touch if they are interested? I dont think she is a tease

2006-10-22 23:29:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I HAVE BEEN IN THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING ON THREE YEARS AND MY SON PASSED RECEANTLT FROM SIDS AND ALL IN ONE MOTION HIS FATHER SAID THAT HE DONT WONT TO BE WITH ME NO MORE BECAUSE I DONT TREAT HIS KIDS LIKE I TREAT MINE AND I FIND THIS BELIEVEABLE BUT I LOVE HIM AND IM WILLING TO DO WHAT EVER TO BE WITH WITH HIM WHAT SHOULD I DO ITS LIKE HE WONT BUDGE SHOULD I WAIT OR SHOULD I MOVE ON HE CALLS FROM TIME TO TIME AND SAY THAT HE LOVE ME SO DO THIS MEAN THAT IT CAN WORK JUST GIVE IT SOME TIME OR THAT I LOVE YOU BUT ITS OVER THE LAST COUPLE OF MONTHS I HAVE BEEN LONLEY AND I DONT WONT TO BE WITH ANOTHER MAN I WONT TO BE WITH MY MAN AND OUR KIDS I THINK THE WHOLE PROMBLEM WAS THAT I WAS STILL A KID NOT YET A WOMAN NOW I AM READY TO TAKE ON THE RESPONSIBILITY OF A FAMILY HOW SHOULD I APPROACH HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HOW I FEEL

2006-10-22 23:29:27 · 2 answers · asked by KASSIE G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I know she's a pensioner but it must have cost her more to post the cheap plastic keyring that it did to buy it. She works in a charity shop and often buys us really awful presents. We always chuck them away, say thank you and try to appreciate the thought. However, there clearly is no thought in this birthday present. I'd rather she didn't waste her money. How do I tell her this without causing offence? By the way, she buys her other grandaughter my niece,things like dolls and remote controlled robots. She is hampered by having to pay postage. Her presents are now getting insulting in their cheapness, especially as I know she is passing money to my brother, who has a drug habit. I'd rather she just didn't bother anymore. By the way, I am generous - always giving her money. She also works part time.

2006-10-22 23:29:09 · 17 answers · asked by True Blue Brit 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can a wife makes her husband do what she wants...i mean if there was a certain issue both of them r disscusing and each has a different opinion than the other...so how can she makes her opinion the one to choose...

2006-10-22 23:28:53 · 5 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After the birth of our daughter my fiance started chattin to girls on the net, getting very friendly and def very personel with them. i forgave him and he promised never to do it again, since then he has done it 3 more times. the latest being my best friend he tried it on with. he denys everything but i have seen the emails and text for myself. this really hurt me and on a night out i kissed someone. now he is making me out to be the biggest tart in town, ive had to stop seeing my best friend and now he has said i have to move away from my home town to have a chance with him. which i have said ill do. should he still be crucifying me after what hes done to me?

2006-10-22 23:27:26 · 11 answers · asked by Paula C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a tape of her voice played over and over while I sleep repeating the phrase

"You will obey me my obedient slave and enjoy it, you live only to serve me. I own you completely. Obey me, obey me and only me".

Do other girls do similar things with their boyfriends?

2006-10-22 23:24:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating