2006-10-22 23:44:31 · 21 answers · asked by Cool gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, noone can answer this question but you, yourself. Only you know whether he is worth it, or whether you just want to believe every lie cause you find your peace with him.
I know its hard to find another soul mate. But having him around reduces that possibility to NIL. Be strong, there are many lonely good people. I for one, have been looking for my soulmate for over 6 years now. I am lonely, frustrated, sick n tired, but I guess, it wont happen for me. Just hope it happens for you.
I'll drink to that. Cheers!!!
2006-10-23 00:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dinesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the dead romance die......How can anyone be forced to get married? Does this dude have a gun to his head? You say you love each other but refer to the relationship as an affair!!! I think you know exactly where you stand in this equation of MESS you have created willingly.. If you can't stand the heat then get your foot off the stove top!!
MOVE ON-----
2006-10-22 23:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN !! I have never been in an affair, but keeping 2 going for over a year is cause for alarm. You can't have both. Either you are with one or the other, not both. He is either a player or just not in control. Either way RUN !! It is not the place for you. You are looking for years of heartache if you continue. He is probably playing with your '' emotional strings ''. You really feel needed .
2006-10-22 23:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by randband4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. You are a woman too and surely you know how it feels to have your loved one love somebody else but you. You will be causing misery to not only to yourself (eventually you will) but to two other people as well. I am certain you would be able to meet someone who would be even better than he is. Let go of him and start anew, with a clean slate.
2006-10-23 00:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ou chooses to marry then the love you think he has for you is not real,because we all have choices.If he cooses to marry another then you should go on with your life, because if you "choose" to continue the relationship you will end up hurting yourself.
2006-10-22 23:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by bluephi023 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Its the other way round.Usually its the girl who is forced to get married. Meet your guy and tell him if he loves you,he should should better start doing something about it.
LOVE NEEDS ACTION
2006-10-22 23:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by ithunderhyderabad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can get married as u both love each other so tieup a knot and get married and make a good futher and look after each things.
2006-10-22 23:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by celina f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for the girl he married. Why was he "forced" to get married?
2006-10-22 23:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. If he really loved you as you said he would not of gotten married to the other person.
2006-10-23 12:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Abhijat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just stick around, continue the affair and watch the fireworks. It will be amazing.
Or, you can bow out and just wish them well.
2006-10-22 23:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋