Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

She has put on a lot of weight in the last year. She used to be thin, but now she has gained about 50lbs. and looks very unhealthy. I know that weight is a very sensitive subject and I don't want to upset her so I don't know what to do.

2006-10-22 19:49:10 · 14 answers · asked by atzi 1 in Friends

Hey everyone,

My sister is graduating this December and I would like to get something special for her. It's her big day and we've all been looking forward to it; I want to get something with her name engraved on it with the dates and all. any suggestions? Can't wait to read your suggestions :)

Thanks!
chilledguy27

2006-10-22 19:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-22 19:46:54 · 19 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-22 19:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by Marvin Q 2 in Weddings

Wearing makeup ages your skin 11 times faster then if you did not wear make-up now if you think about it if you wore makeup for 1 straight year you've wasted 11 years of ageing! I hear alot of it is made out of BAT POOP and coal...

2006-10-22 19:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well ... I had told you guys that I really need to tell my boyfriend im going to be 17 in a month... he actually thinks im 17 already. I know its tremendously stupid but I had lied to him 2 years ago when i met him and when we started talking again about 3 months ago i just couldnt bring myself to tell him i had lied. I really want to tell him and come clean cuz I feel really bad. Im almost sure he'll forgive me but i just dont know how to tell him... please...any help out there?

2006-10-22 19:45:48 · 18 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

so what should you do if your in an affair but your not the one cheating.. and the other person doesnt want to get out of the chaos that they have already started.. plus you see that person spouces all the time.. whats there to do..

2006-10-22 19:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by whataboutfumunda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met her in another city. She was smiling at me. Then we had a conversation. We took a bus across the bridge over the bay. We went to a Motel room. But, I was waiting for her by the pool. She came out in her bathing suit and walked towards me smiling.Then she sat beside me and I put my arm around her. I wrote this letter to her. About this dream. Should I send it to her house ? The only problem is there are 10 entries with her last name in the telephone book and I don't know which one is hers.

2006-10-22 19:43:24 · 5 answers · asked by sandwreckoner 4 in Singles & Dating

ok all,

I got these nasty messages from my girlfriends ex this morning saying the following.

1) im gonna finish what I started, your baby with legs so soft, lips so red and great brown eyes, she wanted to play all night and I loved seeing her cry with pain

2) you wanna talk to--------- well ok, im letting her go home now, she didn't want it but I did it anyway, so great when you see them cry and beg to for me to stop aint it? and

3) oh dont worry, I didn't hurt her too bad, not as bad as I wanted to anyway.

I think she was though my concern is why wont she tell me that she was raped and what am I able to do in order to show that I care, I already emailed her and said that I'm here for her no matter what and that I know what happened...

so why wont she just say that she was raped and also how can I help her in this???

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!

Mitch

2006-10-22 19:42:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend wants to pash but im embarrased coz ive never done it before and i dont know how. can anyone help me???

2006-10-22 19:42:21 · 4 answers · asked by green_pea 2 in Singles & Dating

at those silly whack-a-moles at the fair. Such frustration involved in it, we both couldn't have realized how difficult it is! You guys know what I mean?

2006-10-22 19:41:55 · 7 answers · asked by bloodsanctum 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm bitter, dissappointed (clearly you can tell)

Frustrated, and have given up on the idea of LOVE
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I'm sick of IT, --- I'm all out of options

People tell me I'm good-looking BUT NOTHING HAPPENS

No one ever wants to be serious

Just a bunch of fake people and Fake LOVE.

2006-10-22 19:39:03 · 9 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

i love the reactions i get when i inform them of my sexual status, but hhow is it that 3 little words do all of that... btw im online if you wanna let me know msprettygirl12

2006-10-22 19:38:20 · 9 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-22 19:36:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 19:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by scorpio_online2001 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law is very wicked.She acts innocent in front of my husband and when he /others are not there she taunts me and says stuff that hurt me(saying that she can't stand me etc).She enjoys taunting me a lot in front of people as though she wants to see my reaction.I cook food(full fledged) for my bro and sis -inlaw and husband even though i am working lady and now that she has come here she keeps taunting me saying that how weak everybody has become without her..I feel very bad even though I have tried my best to keep them healthy.I dont know how to control my anger when she irritates me in so many ways.I wish I had a filter in my ear whenever she talks non sense.I don't want o act like her and teach her a lesson.Is there a soft way ?I feel like killing myself sometimes.She is too wicked.What do I do?

2006-10-22 19:34:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Don't get me wrong, we're still madly in love and the relationship is great but sometimes it feels repetitive. Any tips? (we've done countless baths on eachother & massages, romantic wkends, dinner, movies, yadda, yadda, yadda...what else is there left to do?!?)

2006-10-22 19:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by soon2b Mrs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancée wants to have 3-4 grooms men, i don't have 4 really close friends though, one of his friends is with a lovely girl whom i get along with great would it be silly to have her so they could be partners?

I have to closer friends that i have been friends with for years and i feel like the last year we have drifted apart, i know they are expecting to be asked but i don't want to, am i fair or do you think i need to do it out if respect?
I have been engaged for 6 months and after all this time i still feel this way about it!

2006-10-22 19:33:10 · 10 answers · asked by jasesez 1 in Weddings

I told my parents today something about my body that has been like this for four years and it was really hard to do and umberessing, Right befor I had a fight with my mom and dad, about something really stupid, and it's just cause I was feeling so bad about this thing and I wanted to tell them but I couldnt. When I did tell them I had asked my mom if she still loved me because I had been always really upset while I had this condition for the past four years, and she had said, yes. But what I want to know is how we can have a good relationship again because we barely ever talk, and when we do it's about nothing like school chores. When befor all this I used to love my mom more then anything and I want to again but I don't know how it just seems awkward everytime I talk to her, I think she's also really hurt from how I behaved, What should I do?????

2006-10-22 19:32:12 · 1 answers · asked by jeff 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I live together (both 27). She has always been very loud during lovemaking (screaming). Yes I do enjoy it and i'm happy she enjoys it. We live rather close to another house and recently our new neighbor (he's 29) came over and talked to me. (his wife made him come over). Well after some akwardness he finally told me that his wife isn't happy because they have kids in the house and they hear us. I totally understand his point and I have tried to tell my gf about this. She did manage to quiet down just a tad (i had to put my hand over her mouth once) but I don't think it's enough. She seems kind of put off that I have had to tell her to be a bit more quiet, and it's affecting our love life a bit. She tells me that she just can't help it that that is the way she is. Really I want to know if she is just saying this .. does anyone know why she just can't be a bit more quiet? should i move? Like i said it drives me wild but it is becoming a problem.

2006-10-22 19:31:13 · 11 answers · asked by travis R 4 in Singles & Dating

What are some signals that a guy likes you when he seems to be a bit shy? I can't tell if its shy or avoidance. I had never talked to the guy since yesterday when I approached him and just struck up a tiny convo. relating to class. At one point he clasped his hands together, and he was a bit shifty eyed. I know I catch his eye when he sees me but I can't tell if its a good eye catching or its just because at school we seem to cross paths so much.

2006-10-22 19:30:29 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

But someone you love likes it and want you to do it for him?

2006-10-22 19:29:47 · 20 answers · asked by fireviolet_21 2 in Singles & Dating

a girl friend from work stoped by. I call and ask if I can bring her along an hr before the dinner? My MIL said NO, and really scolded me for trying to bring a stranger to a family dinner that was her special occasion. Un known to me she had prepared 6 rock cornish game hens and set the table with her best china crystal and silverware. She had out candles and flowers and linen naokins. She lives in a small apartment and only owns 6 chairs and her good chica was split with her sis she has only six plates. She said I really upset her Did I do anything wrong.

2006-10-22 19:28:43 · 5 answers · asked by nora7142@verizon.net 6 in Family

what are the things that girls do to make a certain guy fall for them? i mean what are the qualities that guys fall for in girls? do girls need to communicate with them regularly? visit them? hang-out with them?

2006-10-22 19:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by deeper28 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-22 19:27:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i work with this guy and he gave me his number today..he doesn't work tomorrow but he wants me to call him around my lunchtime so we can hang out..our lunch is only for like 30 mins..what would be the point of this? i don't know why he would go out of his way for only 30 mins..what do you think? do you think it's a date???

2006-10-22 19:26:57 · 12 answers · asked by yowww kelly clarkson 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Married man with a close female friend. Both are attracted to the other, but neither will act on their feelings for fear of hurting the othe people involved. Can this relationship survive?

2006-10-22 19:26:41 · 28 answers · asked by FJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i stop talking 2 my best friend . who i think is my best friend she hurted me alot n coz of her i loss my good friend . now she is married n moving to us. she wants to meet ne before going tell me wht i should do.

2006-10-22 19:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

maybe you thought you were in love with some girl and yet behind it some people get blinded and not realize that the person just in front of them all this time is the one that they are really in love with? if it is possible when will that realization take place?

2006-10-22 19:23:52 · 8 answers · asked by deeper28 1 in Singles & Dating

For love??,

For advice from random strangers???

2006-10-22 19:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating