Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

It is so hard to get a straight answer from her. Things were great for a few months but now she's shied away these past 2 or 3 months. She assures me she loves me but she has a hard time with showing her emotions. It's not that I don't believe her, and I obviously want to, too, but I am not naive, either. So I plan to put it out there, real cut and dry and this is what I came up with.

Got a few suggestions, changed it up a bit and have:

You are more than I have ever dreamed about finding in a woman. I need to know that you feel the same towards me. Am I everything you want or do you just need more?

Pretty straight forward isn't it? I swear I am contemplating asking for a simple yes or no. Good? Any more suggestions?

2006-10-22 18:53:39 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 18:52:54 · 17 answers · asked by shawnee f 1 in Singles & Dating

And do you men not care about your wives feelings?

2006-10-22 18:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to know what keeps you interested in a woman that you've been with....what keeps the fire burning.....what turns you on about women....how can we help you not cheat.....what can we do to please you more.....

2006-10-22 18:52:00 · 9 answers · asked by pinky42598 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I am dating this girl that cannot reach climaxe from penetration,(she never has and she is 27).. She can reach it from other things. Does anyone know somthing that can solve this? It's not really a big problem from her perspective, but ya know i'd like to be able to help her have one from that if I could. Any suggestions would be appreciated... please don't be retarted.

2006-10-22 18:51:42 · 10 answers · asked by travis R 4 in Singles & Dating

My best freind and I grew up together in nyc. She moved to Honolulu and has been here for 7 years and has new freinds that I don't really click with. I am married now and moved to Honolulu recently.

I realized that our friendship changed. Well, ofcourse it has we're not kids anymore! We got into a disagreement and both felt we needed space to grow. Have you ever been in a similar situation? When you needed a break from someone you dearly cherished?

2006-10-22 18:50:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i see him everyday

2006-10-22 18:50:15 · 25 answers · asked by babyblu 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend(my former fiance) did some things to break my trust, and we're trying to work things out now, but I find myself always worryin about him betrayin my trust again.

2006-10-22 18:49:37 · 12 answers · asked by Bee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The old car pulled into the driveway. Would my father be drunk
again? I soon got my answere. An object flew at me as I looked
out the window. I jumped back as the window shattered out. He
had thrown the jack out of the car at me. A quiet man when sober,
turned into a violent alcoholic when drinking. He beat me with a fishing rod,beat the windows out of the house,ran me and his
mother with a knife. He beat a man in the face,broke a chair over
his head, and ran him down the street with a hammer, yelling"
you run like a turkey"! He beat my pet squirrel to death and said
god wanted him to remind me what he could do to me. When
he went to a bar, people would steer clear of him/ He said he
could see the fear in their eyes. He climmed up on the roof drunk
and screamed, "they all run like turkeys before me"!
An occurence on burwell ave.

2006-10-22 18:49:21 · 3 answers · asked by CODY 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

has been chatting to a lady on IM and she is now sending him 'loving' emails (he hasnt replied to any). he said they only chat but it is obviously more than that. my problerm is do i email her & tell her or wot? I have been trying to catch her on line but never seem to be on at the same time as i dont want her being led on by this no hoper.

2006-10-22 18:48:18 · 11 answers · asked by big momma 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i already tried many times and i heard she is going out with someone else.. (myth) i need advice.

2006-10-22 18:45:08 · 27 answers · asked by qwertyuiop 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a good friend but due to some reason i stop talking to her, but now she she going 2 uk after 10 days n she wants 2 meet me. wht should i do? plz help me plz

2006-10-22 18:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my best friend no i like her but aks like she dont care but i know she likes my back but also shes taken as well.

2006-10-22 18:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i joined a new tuition class recently and i happened to see a girl...and i liked her for her looks...(crush-as its called)...i tried to talk with her but then shes damn quiet...always into her book..hardly talks with any1...she sitz in an xtreme end...i luved 2 talk with her and be close with her..yeah its true..i do got tht cowardness a bit...please help me out frineds!!....

2006-10-22 18:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see them as being the ultimate woman, and I love the way they are dressed!!!

2006-10-22 18:41:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a guy at my church that I am interested in but have not talked with formally---(We'll call him J.R.)

Anyway another guy (We'll call him J.F.) and his family were announced by the pastor as distinguished visitors. J.F. is a freshman at a Distinguished College, and I happen to go to another Distinguished College across the street.

Anyway I introduced myself to J.F. just to be nice to say (hey I go to a neaby college), BUT His parents got so excited that they wanted me to take pictures with him ----So I once again obliged to be nice.

Anyway, J.R., (whom I have a crush on) happened to walk by and J.F.'s mother asked him to take our (me and J.F.'s) picture.

NOOOOOO!!!-----My crush took the picture of Just me and J.F. (it was like a couple's picture)

NOWWW!!!----J.R. probably thinks that me and and J.F. will be a possible couple---NOOOOO!!!! I'm NOT Taken!!! I'll look unavailable to J.R.

I was just trying to be nice and it stabbed me in the back!!!

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2006-10-22 18:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

I know I can orgasm by myself but I've never had that 'explosion' from intercourse, although it does sometimes send sensations through my body. Just wondering if that too would be an orgasm because my partner always asks if I 'came' but I don't know what to tell him coz it's not the same feeling as when I do it myself!

2006-10-22 18:39:46 · 10 answers · asked by liss 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 18:38:58 · 7 answers · asked by heartlooter 1 in Friends

Ive met my girl 3 months ago and every week I take her out and we see a movie or do crazy stuff, we hang out at cafes go walking around the french quarter, we eat at restaurants, we skateboard, run in peoples yards at night lol. I adore this girl alot. Every time I try to get close she seems to keep to herself. But every time I back off and stop calling her, she wants to hang out. She just told me yesterday that she was moving to Florida in 3 weeks with her sister but she will be back to visit. Should I give up hope? Does she feel anything for me?

2006-10-22 18:38:37 · 12 answers · asked by mobius_l 2 in Singles & Dating

hey there
i am a 20 guy,who tried alot to find some friends from the net,and i was sucsfull,but just to find them,i couldn'tkeep none of them,most of the ones that i found at first mentioned that they love to be one of my friends,but no one continue.why?
if you have some expreince of something like this,
plz let me know
thanks
farhad

2006-10-22 18:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by farhad 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy at my church that I am interested in but have not talked with formally---(We'll call him J.R.)

Anyway another guy (We'll call him J.F.) and his family were announced by the pastor as distinguished visitors. J.F. is a freshman at a Distinguished College, and I happen to go to another Distinguished College across the street.

Anyway I introduced myself to J.F. just to be nice to say (hey I go to a neaby college), BUT His parents got so excited that they wanted me to take pictures with him ----So I once again obliged to be nice.

Anyway, J.R., (whom I have a crush on) happened to walk by and J.F.'s mother asked him to take our (me and J.F.'s) picture.

NOOOOOO!!!-----My crush took the picture of Just me and J.F. (it was like a couple's picture)

NOWWW!!!----J.R. probably thinks that me and and J.F. will be a possible couple---NOOOOO!!!! I'm NOT Taken!!! I'll look unavailable to J.R.

I was just trying to be nice and it stabbed me in the back!!!

2006-10-22 18:36:04 · 9 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my babys father for the past year and a few months. I recently gave birth to our son. Our whole relationship has been rocky from jump. He has abusedme physically and emotionally, used me, cheated etc. We've had our good times as well. In january of this year I finally called the police on him and he was lokced up til June. He hasnt cheated but has become a complete asshole..Im a ***** everyday, if I do something wrong or not( which I dont) A few days ago we got into a fight, a real fight to where I was woopin his *** too. I dont want it to start back up. My son doesnt need that around him. His father did the same to his mother and I see a cycle! The thing is, there is something mentally wrong with him. Sometimes he'll makestuff up just to get mad. When he gets mad he goes into this rage that he cannot control. I love him to death but I dont know if I should stay or go. I was thinking if he got anger management n therapy it might be worth a shot to save our family. Help

2006-10-22 18:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by LADII 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend just started dating and we dont have any good pictures of us together. So is having couple pictures take by a pro. a good or bad idea?

2006-10-22 18:34:02 · 3 answers · asked by L.J. 1 in Singles & Dating

i am an P.G. completed student and in search of a job.

2006-10-22 18:32:39 · 12 answers · asked by sricharan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to know how to open up to someone. He is in one of my classes i currently attend and i know he is homosexual. I cannot think of any way to get his attention or even incline that i like him.

2006-10-22 18:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by Joshua B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 18:32:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My crush asked me out [eventuallyy!!!]......and i am so thrilled.......we love each other and we wanna just have sum fun...like go out on a date and all....but my mum is DEAD strict.....she doesnt even let me go for a walk if i dont have a good enough reason....i have tried talking about this with her, but its really not working...........so basically, can u ppl pleaseee help me think of a GOOD excuse which i can fool her with?????? because i just wanna have sum fun in life....and its not like everyday that a guy asks you out.....and that too the school hunk.......so pls help me out guys...i really love him and i dont want to lose him ....so can ne1 also gimme ideas on how NOT to lose a guy??????????....thankyou... :-)

2006-10-22 18:31:00 · 14 answers · asked by *Vixen* 2 in Singles & Dating

I am making a little book for my mom who is a recovering alcoholic and addict. I would like to put some words of wisdom, quotes and little sayings. All positive or in some way helpful. Any ideas???

2006-10-22 18:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by angel_lillian001 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have Americans today become too permiscuous?

2006-10-22 18:30:35 · 14 answers · asked by James R 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is now being tried for 2 felonies(hit and run & false police report) and he is convinced he will be a convicted felen one way or another. He shouldn't never drove off, but i know he was too scared and i know he didnt think he killed a man at first. I guess he overpaniced, but i know it was not intentional . He gets really good grades in high school and already got accepted to a bunch of universities. He's a really nice guy who would never intentially hurt anyone and has never been in any serious trouble. Now that all this is going on, he thinks its pointless and a waste of money to go to college now because he thinks no one will hire him for a job after he graduates. He's even considering dropping out of high school. I keep telling to stop thinking about what might happen in the future and keep focus on school, but he doesn't care anymore. So do you think its pointless for him to go to college now? What should i say to him to convince him to keep on studying?

2006-10-22 18:30:30 · 7 answers · asked by manny_ptown 1 in Friends