Ok I am dating this girl that cannot reach climaxe from penetration,(she never has and she is 27).. She can reach it from other things. Does anyone know somthing that can solve this? It's not really a big problem from her perspective, but ya know i'd like to be able to help her have one from that if I could. Any suggestions would be appreciated... please don't be retarted.
2006-10-22 18:51:42 · 10 answers · asked by travis R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok Travis. The answerers are all shedding the light of truth . Most women don't reach climax through penetration. However, the possibility is there. Also, with saying that, there is a spot in women that is not reached during penetration, that contributes to non-orgasmic sessions for women. The G-Spot can be found in women, by inserting two fingers in them and performing the "come here" motion. You'll know when you've found it, because it gives her a urinating sensation, although she won't urinate.
Only some men, they say, have the ability to give women the "O" by penetration alone, simply because they have the curve in their "package" to stimulate the G-Spot. If you don't have that curve, then you have to manually stimulate the spot, then find a suitable position to continue G-Spot stimulation through penetration, such as, doggy style, or her on top, with her back towards you.
Google G-Spot. You'll get more info.
Good luck!
2006-10-23 05:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In understanding things of this nature, you must understand the physiology of sexual intercourse. Sometimes, the penis will not stimulate the clittoris, and will not cause an orgasm with penetration. Many thousands of women do NOT have an orgasm simply from having normal vaginal intercourse. It is not anything wrong with you or her, it is just one of those silly little things that happens. If she Never has.....then she probably never WILL. (SORRY!) But, look on the bright side--there are other ways to get what she needs, and you should play along too! The sexual world is a vast place, and there is always LOTS to do! Have fun with it!
2006-10-23 01:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ltown29m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't beat yourself up too bad. Most women do not get an orgasm from penetration alone. It doens't matter how much "heat" you are packing downstairs. If you want her to get into you sexually, you must learn how to foreplay and be sensual. That is the keys to picking her locks.
You need to know where the sensual points on her body. Also use a 15 minute rule of thumb when you foreplay. Fifteen minutes of foreplay before intercourse. Gotta warm up the oven before sticking in the meat.
2006-10-23 02:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Contact the 40 yr-OLD Virgin
He's got all the answers for ya
VIAGRA for Women is another great perscription, I hear
OR, Let her have a convo with Johnny Depp--That'll get a rise out of any woman
YEAH I'm Retarted but then again , at least I know it's spelled RE-TAR-DED.
Notice the D's, bro.
lol---Lighten Up and give me a THUMBS DOWN
COME ON BABY!!!!----THUMB ME DOWN THE DRAIN!!!
MUAHH HAAAA HAAAAA
2006-10-23 01:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by What gives? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you comfortable with each other? Talk with each other.. No one would make both of sexually happy if you are not open with each other... Ask her sweetly . with care and all the tenderness what ritual would you do for her to make her reach her climax....I read some books that the ego of a man boasts when he makes his partner succesfully and happily reached her peak!Say to her you will do everything just to make her happy on your lovemaking...
2006-10-23 02:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure you've asked her what can you do during the actual act, right? If not ask!!! Men like to do it really fast, this is good sometimes, but for me as a woman, doing it really slow at first drove me crazy, we can feel everything that way. I dunno, but it worked for me. You should call in to Dr. Sue, you know the older lady on cable who answers all those quirky sex questions. That too was my problem, once!! Good luck!!
2006-10-23 02:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by OZzY MoTo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off dont make that your primary goal, it might become a distraction to you. next try some types or foreplay on her...oral, mannual etc... also for women a lot about sex is emotional connection so try to connect with her during intercourse. good luck
2006-10-23 02:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by guitar_lady81 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am 25 and have only had 4 orgasms from penatration. some women are just built that way.... you can use other things WHILE your inside of her. have you tried that? or get her REALLY stimulated before you penatrate her and just before she goes you go in her....
hope that helps :) good luck ;)
2006-10-23 02:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by mellisa m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go down on her
2006-10-23 01:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-23 01:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋