Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

It is so hard to get a straight answer from her. Things were great for a few months but now she's shied away these past 2 or 3 months. She assures me she loves me but she has a hard time with showing her emotions. It's not that I don't believe her, and I obviously want to, too, but I am not naive, either. So I plan to put it out there, real cut and dry and this is what I came up with.

Am I everything you want in a partner? Do you find everything you need and expect from a relationship by dating me or do you need more? We need an honest answer.

I am not trying to put her on the spot, but I can't keep trying if I have any doubts that I am not everything she wants. Are there any sly answers that you can come up with that could leave me in the dark even after asking her this?

2006-10-22 18:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I am having a masquerade themed wedding with lots of masks, feathers and candles. I am going to play classical music to keep with the theme, do you think this is cool or corny?

2006-10-22 18:28:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-22 18:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do guys like to say stupid remarks that are sexual like when you say "screw you" they say "not now, later." or they are always touching you on your back and sides, or poking you or teasing you and trying to scare you. And they always give you a hard time about everything, just to see you get flustered!! All my guy friends and guy-aquaintances have said in the past I'm fun to tease. Why is that!? Do they not like me or something? Guys..if you do this..please tell me why? THANKS!

I'm a senior in highschool by the way.....thanks!! :)

2006-10-22 18:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IAm 27years old, I feel it is the time to get married and live the family life. For the coming 2years, I should be married and at least have one kid.

But, I feel too much scared, I suppose it comes positive?? will all my dreams be shut down? will be able to have a baby if found positive??. What will be the reaction from my friends? family and other relatives?.Really these are the questions daily ringing in my head.

These questions acted as a break for me to go for a test. Should I mary before testing? how about the kid if found positive? how about its mom?.Just a bit cough make me feel,ooooooooh! the symptoms have already started!!!Lots and lots of questions burning my brain.

Please help me, where and how to start?, I HAVE NEVER SEXED WITHOUT A CONDOM

2006-10-22 18:26:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi all, first post here. the girl I have a crush on just got dumped by her boyfriend (who lives in canada so it doesn't matter) what shoul I do, I'm not eben friends with her and I really want to approach her plus I'm quite shy and the mere idea of speaking to her drives me sympathetic. please help, I don't want anyone 'but me) to take advantage of the situation Thanks in advance

2006-10-22 18:25:55 · 7 answers · asked by nunohcell 1 in Singles & Dating

He died last year and I took care of him for two years. He had esophageal cancer. I don't remember spending much time like in high school cuz I was always out. Now I realize all the advice he gave me was so right and I was just so wrong. I miss him so much that I end up crying a lot like now. Those who've lost parents or loved ones... do you all feel lost also? I feel lost.I really do.

2006-10-22 18:25:36 · 22 answers · asked by Linda 2 in Family

2006-10-22 18:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by MARILYN S 2 in Friends

i keep on thinking about him!CAN'T STOP! god! help me...!!! wat should i do??????

2006-10-22 18:24:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that ill have to do it but i honestly have no clue on how its done....how did you learn and are there tips on how to do it ?

2006-10-22 18:24:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 18:23:52 · 5 answers · asked by sn_john2000 1 in Singles & Dating

Well come on my ex is into my brother but hasnt done anything yet cuz she says she still loves me. And cuz of everything me and her best friend started talking more and came up with the idea to get back at her by hooking up then telling her about it. What should I do? Oh yeah the ex is really pissed and said she needs to talk to me tomorrow.

2006-10-22 18:22:18 · 15 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

i really need some help with this girl. i don't no what to do and if i should ask her out. i really like her though! plz help!

2006-10-22 18:21:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He told my sister that he REALLY likes me and wants to ask me to this thing but I don't know when he's gonna ask me.......so what should I do in the mean time?

2006-10-22 18:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by Kimberli M 1 in Singles & Dating

What would be a good movie to watch with you friends if one of them is moving away to another country and you want to cry and stuff?

2006-10-22 18:21:16 · 7 answers · asked by anitaa 1 in Friends

2006-10-22 18:21:13 · 8 answers · asked by valentinoe 1 in Friends

ok as some of u know (the ones who have read my other question) i was in a car accident where i was the passenger and my friend who was driving rearended someone and no one was hurt except me (the muscle in my right shoulder seperated from the bone and i have two ripped muscles in the arm and i had whiplash) and when i was wearing the sling he (my friend) would be mean to me and he claimed that it was just because he felt guilty so i stopped wearing the sling early (i know stupid move but i hated how he treated me) and tonight he told me that the real reason was that he was mad at me and he refused to tell me y he was mad .........
why would he be mad at me i didnt do anything i wasnt even the person who distracted him! the friend that was sitting behind him did that!
i need advise because it really hurts to know he was mad at me for an unknown reason.

thanks

2006-10-22 18:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by funny in a tragic way 1 in Friends

if i see a girl that i want to get to know and want to start a friedchip with, what should i do? what do i say? how do i get her to not think im wierdo at first meeting?

2006-10-22 18:21:03 · 8 answers · asked by Mike Brouelcaguar 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfreind goes out of town to his moms house every weakend and he says he's faithfull but i dont know,cuz he doesnt call or doesnt answer my calls.but he does have a cell but before i met him hes had alot of freinds that r girls,cuz his moms gay so its all about girls.so i need to know if he is cheating or not.

2006-10-22 18:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for feedback from married individuals who either have tried or are in the swinging life-style. Can you swing with other people and still maintain a good marriage and sex life? How has swinging affected your relationship with your spouse? If a couple decides to swing, what are some of the boundaries that should be made? I have talked to people who "play" alone & people who only "play" together (both are either involved or they are with other people at the same party, no closed doors). If either is ok, which is better & what are the issues with either? What if your spouse has never had any sexual experiences with someone other than you? How can a new sexual relationship change the dynamics of sex in the marriage? If you and your spouse have good communication and a strong marriage, is exploring or possibly swinging when both husband & wife are in agreement an acceptable idea? I would appreciate feedback from anyone who has had any experiences like this.

2006-10-22 18:18:09 · 14 answers · asked by kely 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Its 24 1/2 inches around I am not tall at all.. Acually 5'0 am 14..(sad I know) On another note.. I feel as when am walking around in public I feel like am a freakin pumpkin head with a small body walking around since I was told this when I had short hair I grew my hair out in kind of a puff type thing so it looks smaller but still.. I can't even really wear that many hats..

2006-10-22 18:17:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you say lets talk and work things out or just say where are the freaking divorce papers

2006-10-22 18:17:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and how can someone know that you're infacuated by someone you've known from a long time when you think it's love?why do people say you're infacuated if you feel you are in love?It's fustrated and feels like I'm disrecpected.so I want to understand.thanks

2006-10-22 18:17:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 18:16:37 · 4 answers · asked by edward b 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl about a month ago in class at college, she use to call me, we would have great conversations, she'd try to get to know me, etc. One day I was mad at her for cancelling plans we had the day before so i kinda gave her attitude, she called me after class and i didnt call her back for 9 hours (she didnt pick up), and we didnt talk for 4 days, ever since that time things havent been the same, we dont talk as much anymore in class, she doesnt call me, when i call her she says she cant talk and to call her back. I dunno what I should do , should i ask her whats wrong? should i apologize for that day? I really care about her and really want her as a friend.

please help this concerned guy

2006-10-22 18:14:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, guys. I recently started to having a relationship with this wonderful girl, who has been a friend of mine for a year. And she happened to be a white girl.(And I'm Korean) I don't know how it happened, but it just turned out that way. I really like her from inside out. But sometimes I get this staring from people when I walk on the streets holding her hands. What's wrong with them? Why are they staring? It's very uncomfortable, and I tend to go somewhere away from a crowded place. Serously, I can't stand this anymore, and I don't know what to do. Do you guys stare interracial couple when you spot them on the streets too?

2006-10-22 18:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by Patrick J 1 in Singles & Dating

It comes in two parts, one is a ring which a woman wears and the other is a small cage that surrounds a man's balls. When the lady turns a stone on the ring an electronic signal is sent to the cage and it tightens. I have tried it out and my girlfriend and I have not argued since, the house is also much cleaner. Has anybody else tried this device? In Japan it is not uncommon for a lady to have several of these rings on each hand.

2006-10-22 18:14:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in my billfold from my wife. She thinks I am holding out. I did lie to her that I didn't have any money, and she found out I was lying, now what should I do? Am a bad person for lying to her??

2006-10-22 18:13:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I met about 8 years ago - we got married after about 2 years of being together - before this we had a lot of trouble with my parents as they weren't keen on us marrying as we were from different religions so the year before we got married was a pretty stressful time for both of us.
At the time the 2 of us wanted nothing more than to be together for the rest of our lives and so marriage was soemthing both of us were keen - or so I thought.
Recently my hsband has been saying that he feels like he was pressurised into marrying me and that although he wants to spend his life with me he feels like he didn't get to enjoy his time as a batchelor. This really hurts me as I never pressurised him into marriage - at the time it was something that he seemed as keen for as me.
Now I am just really confused as to what is really going on - we can't go back and change what happened in the past so I don;t understand what my husband is trying to say.

2006-10-22 18:12:51 · 11 answers · asked by misscynic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to go for the test this week
you can also send me your advice through my e-mai:bencarsons@yahoo.com.

I will be very grateful for your advice.This test really burns my brain, makes me feel like am going to be told when will I die.

Please help me for your advice.Thanks a million!

2006-10-22 18:12:44 · 4 answers · asked by Benny 1 in Singles & Dating