It is so hard to get a straight answer from her. Things were great for a few months but now she's shied away these past 2 or 3 months. She assures me she loves me but she has a hard time with showing her emotions. It's not that I don't believe her, and I obviously want to, too, but I am not naive, either. So I plan to put it out there, real cut and dry and this is what I came up with.
Am I everything you want in a partner? Do you find everything you need and expect from a relationship by dating me or do you need more? We need an honest answer.
I am not trying to put her on the spot, but I can't keep trying if I have any doubts that I am not everything she wants. Are there any sly answers that you can come up with that could leave me in the dark even after asking her this?
2006-10-22 18:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reverse Psychology.... Make it about you and how her feelings reflect on your feelings.
Tell her that your finding it really hard being with someone that isnt putting in 100% into the relationship. Be sensitive bout it but be firm. Dont let her worm her way out of answering the question. Make her feel as though she can talk to you, no matter what the problem is. Make like its really effecting your feelings for her, and that its confusing you.
Hope all goes well for you buddy :)
2006-10-22 18:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should ask them that way persay but you should ask.
Sit her down face to face somewhere comfertable not in a cafe or something...but somewhere where you can actually talk with out people trying to listen to the convo. Then dont ASK HER what anything, you tell her what you want and then ask her if that is what she wants. Be the man you know take lead if you want her you tell her I want to pursue more than a dating relationship, I want someone that I know will be there for me in the future and can provide me with what i need emotionally and physically u know so on and so forth. If you cant get anything out of her she is not worth it trust me cause there are a lot of females out there who do no tplay games with your head and heart like she is. I hate stupid girls who play games on men and ruine it for the nice girls... so think about it either way its her loss or her gaine not yours.
2006-10-23 01:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her loophole response: Maybe. . . . Pin her down to: Yes or No!
If the response is "maybe" you may consider: moving on. . . .
2006-10-23 01:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres always gonna be a loop hole. If they don't want to talk about it they will get around it. Let her know its important to you to know how she really feels about you.
2006-10-23 01:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by swan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋