my boyfreind goes out of town to his moms house every weakend and he says he's faithfull but i dont know,cuz he doesnt call or doesnt answer my calls.but he does have a cell but before i met him hes had alot of freinds that r girls,cuz his moms gay so its all about girls.so i need to know if he is cheating or not.
2006-10-22 18:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i ask him but he says no,but yet i have a gut feeling
2006-10-22 18:30:28 · update #1
If you think he is cheating, then he is. Your instincts are 90% correct.
2006-10-22 18:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes, it doesnt make sense that he would not call you from his mom's house. also if you have been together for awhile, i would think that he would invite you sometimes. You may never know, its not like hes going to admit it to you. The main point is, if you are at the point where you are continually questioning him, doubting him and checking up on him, the relationship is not worth it. There is some reason why you feel so paranoid, our instincts are usually right, whether he is cheating, or untrustworthy in other ways. You should leave and find someone else who will make you happier. There's tons of guys out there, don't restrict yourself to someone like that.
2006-10-23 01:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by spacecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is the three easiest way of finding out.
1. When he comes back those he smell really fresh like he scrub the crap out of any girly smells, does he hug you and kiss you as soon as he sees you?
2. Does he ever invite you to go with him to see his family? (If you answer no to this question you should really just leave him cuz he aint serious about you or he is cheating on you)
3. Do you deep down inside think he is cheating a womens intuation is stronger than you think.
2006-10-23 01:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough, follow him one weekend. Go to the town he goes to, get a room, but spend most of the time watching what he does. That will be the only way you'll truly know. The accusations will just break down your relationship, so go find out for yourself.
2006-10-23 01:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by OZzY MoTo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think one question might be: "do you want to go on in life with questions like these all the time?" I think if you have to ask then you know the answer. Even if he isn't cheating by some strange coincidence, then it still isn't worth it because all of the stress he's putting you through...gl...
2006-10-23 01:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is cheating. Actions speak louder than words and if he was not cheating on you than why can't he call or take your calls when he is at his mom's. I am sure you already feel this or you would not be asking the question.
2006-10-23 01:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you lack trust in the relationship its doomed you have to both trust eachother 100% otherwise the relationship wont work. If your gut says he is cheating then he is cheating.
2006-10-23 01:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow him to his moms house and do your own serveillence on him. hes gotta be up to something bad if he don't wanna answer the phone.
2006-10-23 01:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by let er buck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is, you're most likely right, and if you don't trust him anyway, what kind of a relationship is that!
2006-10-23 01:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend then he should spend some time with you on the weekend!
2006-10-23 01:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋