I met this girl about a month ago in class at college, she use to call me, we would have great conversations, she'd try to get to know me, etc. One day I was mad at her for cancelling plans we had the day before so i kinda gave her attitude, she called me after class and i didnt call her back for 9 hours (she didnt pick up), and we didnt talk for 4 days, ever since that time things havent been the same, we dont talk as much anymore in class, she doesnt call me, when i call her she says she cant talk and to call her back. I dunno what I should do , should i ask her whats wrong? should i apologize for that day? I really care about her and really want her as a friend.
please help this concerned guy
2006-10-22 18:14:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should hand her your manhood on a silver platter and beg for her forgiveness. Or you can realize that there are lots of other girls at college, most of them eager to meet you and other people.
2006-10-22 18:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have told her you were upset about the broken plans first off. Then you needed to call her and not wait days un~end. Now you had better go and tell her how much you value her and her friendship and that you are so sorry for what happened and explain that you got upset because of the canceled plans. Just be honest with her.
2006-10-22 18:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by mellisa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to confront her in person, but either way, the "moment" might be gone; relationship beginnings are very fragile and if one side loses the "mood" it can be hard to get it back; don't force it, but maybe at least try to confront her on campus and ask her to have a coffee or something, to give you a chance to explain yourself. good luck.
writing a letter (not email) is an ok idea too and kind of romantic.
2006-10-22 18:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that what wrong with this world is lack of communcation. so yes ask her, is anything wrong and apologize for that day that makes all the different in the world .she, probably think you didn,t want to talk to her doing those 9 hours good luck
2006-10-22 18:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to apologize. You may have ruined your chances of being something other than friends. But if she is worth having as a friend she will forgive you.
2006-10-22 18:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by mary n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be hard on you but don't play games. If you would of called her right away, none of this might of happened. You might of scared her into thinking you are childish and like to play games. Let her come to you now and if she doesn't, move on.
2006-10-22 18:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A handwritten letter would be a good gesture of sincerity.
Make it clear that you regret your lack of contact, and would like to do what it takes to renew the friendship.
Be honest, direct, and concise.
Good luck.
2006-10-22 18:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by omikapsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freaking apologize to her and buy her something as soon as possible. Human make mistakes. Don't let this incident destory your future plans.
2006-10-22 18:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by aguyin1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to both of them.And if u really like her then ask her out it might make her feel better.
2006-10-22 18:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her in person. Ask her if she still wants to be friends. etc.....you'll never know until you ask! SO ASK!
2006-10-22 18:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by wherenai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋