I know I can orgasm by myself but I've never had that 'explosion' from intercourse, although it does sometimes send sensations through my body. Just wondering if that too would be an orgasm because my partner always asks if I 'came' but I don't know what to tell him coz it's not the same feeling as when I do it myself!
2006-10-22 18:39:46 · 10 answers · asked by liss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is a bit different with yourself, I would say that you are probably more relaxed and you know exactly what you like.
I do. My husband still is pretty great, but it is just different when it is myself.
hope this helps - p.s. i would not mention it to your mate. It doesn't matter.
2006-10-22 18:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Calilady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the rest of you, but they are more intense during sex with my boyfriend (I say sex because it could be any form of sex, not just straight intercourse). My boyfriend wanted to watch me masturbate once, so I put on a show for him. He quickly learned what got me off, I coached him along with what felt amazing and he has since been giving me intense orgasms faster and stronger than the ones I can give myself! I'm jealous! Why can't I do that to myself?!?
2006-10-22 20:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mmmmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel confortable enough with your partner, either rub your clitoris yourself or get him to during intercourse. If you're lucky (and skilled), you can both get off at the same time. Yes, with the toe-curling explosion. Oh, and don't forget the cardinal rule: you can't have too much foreplay.
2006-10-22 18:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is quite a bit of a difference when your alone, you know EXACTLY what you want and when. So as long as your still having a good time with your partner I wouldn worry too much about it!
2006-10-22 19:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by mullet3k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know man I had really good 'O'S but never THE O u know? So I dont know I had good sex b4 where ur whole body shake sup and toes curle n **** but thats when u love someone so much that its the emotions and the feeling that make it so great
2006-10-22 18:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are not having a good orgasm with intercourse..
It is not your fault...
It is the fault of your male partner....
2006-10-22 18:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's not the same, but no need to tell that to your partner. they are just different; one not necessarily better than the other; being close with another person is a special thing. try not to stress it and don't let him make you stress it either.
2006-10-22 18:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people dont "***" from sex. Some just *** from oral sex, or forplay. Each person is different and everyone is built different. Just try to things. Explore. It cant hurt. It can only improve your relationship.
2006-10-22 18:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with loving yourself
2006-10-22 18:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Suvivoru2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best partner you will ever have is yourself. no one will ever compare.
2006-10-22 18:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by RYAN M 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋