There's a guy at my church that I am interested in but have not talked with formally---(We'll call him J.R.)
Anyway another guy (We'll call him J.F.) and his family were announced by the pastor as distinguished visitors. J.F. is a freshman at a Distinguished College, and I happen to go to another Distinguished College across the street.
Anyway I introduced myself to J.F. just to be nice to say (hey I go to a neaby college), BUT His parents got so excited that they wanted me to take pictures with him ----So I once again obliged to be nice.
Anyway, J.R., (whom I have a crush on) happened to walk by and J.F.'s mother asked him to take our (me and J.F.'s) picture.
NOOOOOO!!!-----My crush took the picture of Just me and J.F. (it was like a couple's picture)
NOWWW!!!----J.R. probably thinks that me and and J.F. will be a possible couple---NOOOOO!!!! I'm NOT Taken!!! I'll look unavailable to J.R.
I was just trying to be nice and it stabbed me in the back!!!
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2006-10-22 18:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"clcalifor..."----I DID NOT give you a thumbs down---and instead must agree---my "situation" is ridiculously long
2006-10-22 19:05:08 · update #1
Lol....don't worry so much about it....just make conversation with J.R and then casually tell him that you were only taking pictures with J.F to be nice....once you've got the ball rolling; make it a point to talk to him as often as you can....and when you feel confident enought to know that he's comfortable with you then just ask him out! C'mon, you've got nothing to lose....good luck:)
(I wish my church was this exciting....lol)
2006-10-22 18:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jaybird21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow thats pretty sad i'm sorry that happened to you.well u might think that ur love life is difficult but there r other people that has a harder one. u could still have J.R. but u just have to tell him. he might have a feeling for u already so why not give it a try? go up to him and say "_________(guy's name) i really like u. i'm not dating ______(J.F. name). i was just trying to be nice to him and said that i go to a collage across the street." and c how he reacts but do it when there r just the 2 of u. sometimes don't be that nice but i get what u mean cuz im like that to! but it didn't happened to me. so i hope that speaking will help get who u want and i wish u luck! ~Cindy
2006-10-23 01:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT REALLY? GOOD THING FOR YOU J.R GOES TO SCHOOL RIGHT ACROSS FROM YOU . ASK HIM OUT FOR COFFEE OR LUNCH SAY YOU HAVE X AMOUNT OF TIME BETWEEN CLASSES AND THAT'S WHEN YOU MOVE IN ON HIM.
2006-10-23 01:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by passionate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see you're still having problems with your church/college friends.
Maybe you should get rid of your friends for a while.
2006-10-23 01:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk with JR and let him know you ARE SO available, and maybe go for lunch or something after church?? and make it clear to JF that you are NOT available to him, clear to his mother too.....
2006-10-23 01:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by mellisa m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
way tooooooooo long and complicated to read
2006-10-23 01:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋